29 year old dominant male seeking a switch male of any age
Gender fluid male seeking gender fluid "Alice" in wonderland (males or females welcome)....
Hello everyone! I am a 29 year old dominant bi sexual male. I do, however, have slight switch tendencies from time to time but dominant even in those situations as well. I am looking for a either submissive females or submissive males (including feminine boys.) I'm looking for something specific; a sequence of events that lead to an intriguing RP(however what I primarily seek lies along the realm of just a submissive partner in general.) Keep in mind, I am looking for before hand planning("Porn Hunting") for inspiration. Consists of the submissive listening to my desires and helping me to find pornographic images, similar to my wants/kinks, as well as theirs and also to inspire an RP moment. I have a passion for details both about myself and about others, so I love to know clothes details, bodily details, make up etc. Role Play may be anything and everything, so any other ideas you may have feel free to come to me with, along with pictures. However what I primarily seek and have a special place for is: Transformation Gender Play but other than that I am open minded to all types of sexual situations of course. If this is your cup of tea, read forward.
In terms of "kinks" and "fetishes" I would have to say it's ever evolving and quite an open book. However as of right now, my interests are: orgasm control/edging/teasing/denial, roleplay writing(obviously lol) and most importantly just the mental aspect of being dominant and in control. What I mean by "mental aspect" of control I mean I'm not going to pound my chest and be like "Me Master, you be my bitch" because that is obviously not me and in poor taste on my part. I just wanted to make it known that's what I am intrigued in. However, for me, I don't particularly believe being dominant is all about the physical side of being dominant. To me it's far more deeper and on a more mental level than just say "tying someone up." Don't get me wrong I have nothing against doing that either but you get my drift. On a side note, in terms of "vanilla" kinks, I do have a huge weakness for legs(high heels, stockings, etc) and eyes. Consider my "legs and eyes" as my "tits and ass" that most typical men gawk at. And lastly, the more simplest kink would be my addiction to porn photos on the web(pictures.) I may be a romantic type but I am a guy after all; all men have this addiction regardless.
Now to dive in a bit deeper as to my kinks and sexual interests: I am Dominant bi sexual(almost even pansexual) male. I do, however, have slight switch tendencies from time to time but dominant even in those situations as well. I'm looking for something specific; a sequence of events that lead to an intriguing RP. Keep in mind, I am looking for before hand planning("Porn Hunting") for inspiration. Consists of the submissive listening to my desires and helping me to find pornographic images, similar to my wants/kinks, as well as theirs and also to inspire an RP moment. I have a passion for details both about myself and about others, so I love to know clothes details, bodily details, make up etc. Role Play may be anything and everything, so any other ideas you may have feel free to come to me with, along with pictures. However what I primarily seek and have a special place for is: Transformation Gender Play but other than that I am open minded to all types of sexual situations of course.
The point of this "porn hunting" is to help you learn my tastes but also learn how I want you to illustrate things when we do RP. It will also help you see what I look for as well. The overall plot I always been wanting to explore revolves around the story of two best male best friends(I do not have the luxury of many friends) and how we "bro out" to porn. First by gawking at and literally picking the pictures apart and then slowly gradually noticing things in the porn that make us both realize in "self discovery/epitome fashion" together that "hey, maybe being a chick is a sweet deal." In other words, the appeal of power and money (free drinks, club life etc) is what "tricks us"....That will be how we justify wanting to be a chick without sounding "gay" so to speak. It's a bit of a mix between orientation play, denial and simply a "twisted bromance." Also, one thing to take note is the manipulation flow. The "vexed porn" will poison your mind with this self-discovery first and then the way it will infect my mind is by you "selling/manipulating" the idea you just discovered and preach it to me as you porn hunt.
As I mentioned before, what I want us to have initially is a "bromance/jock" type of dynamic together. What that means is, I want more of a laid back conversation flow/style; I believe the slang term is "chat speak." I know it seems a bit rudimentary but oddly it is something that pleases me(I don't usually talk this way in real life.) I want there to be more of a laid back style of talking with one another; call each other "bro, dude, man." I want us to make jokes with each other, laugh, say lol. I want there to be also a hint of orientation banter/homoerotic jokes even borderline flirtation but in a denial sort of sense(if that makes ANY sense lol.) Don't be TOO much of an ass or be too mean. Remember we are best friends. Show some sense of warmth. Now, in terms of what I want you to pay attention for when we "gawk at bitches" so to speak is that I want you to verbally gawk at the women with me; pick apart the photo, describe the photo and what you enjoy in colorful "eye candy" detail. I don't mean just to say "check those legs and heels on that babe" but instead describe the heels, what color heels, what kind, and how her legs look, the skin tone etc. Also, keep in mind if I zone in on a specific part of the pic that is your cue to describe specifically that part with me. I want you to describe the pic as if it is not in front of us, pick apart and visualize the photo of what you enjoy(and even dislike) in true "bro" fashion. It's a way for you to not only learn my tastes but also to get into the style of inadvertently pleasing your "bud" with our "circle jerk" sort of porn session. Think of it also as an interactive approach to training you to learn my tastes and wants as potentially my switch/submissive.
To elaborate on how the transformation kicks in is like this. It happens once we really hone in at the point of looking at really "kick ass pics" that resonate those values we discover when we "circle jerk." What it leads to is us slowly transforming almost in sort of a hypnosis where it starts with our vocab and personality and goes from there. In other words, we talk as "bros" to "bffs" And lastly it gets even worse. It goes to the point that the pics we are talking about are actually us in different snap shots of our lives.
Now that's me overall in a nutshell. As you can see, I seek something as you can tell a bit more....specific. I come online because I have no where else to go to find what I am looking for. I do not know if joining this site was the right choice in my endedevour in what I seek but I honestly have no where else to look. I'm looking for someone in this "lifestyle" but at the same token looking for something more than just "shits and giggles" so to speak. I'm here to find my "Alice" (the name I've grown to use as the name of what I ideally seek.) I've succumbed down the rabbit hole to see where wonderland takes me. Will I find her? I do not know. But regardless of the fact, everyone is a bit mad no matter who you are.
If any of this intrigues you, feel free to email me at: [email protected]
Gender fluid male seeking gender fluid "Alice" in wonderland (males or females welcome)....
Hello everyone! I am a 29 year old dominant bi sexual male. I do, however, have slight switch tendencies from time to time but dominant even in those situations as well. I am looking for a either submissive females or submissive males (including feminine boys.) I'm looking for something specific; a sequence of events that lead to an intriguing RP(however what I primarily seek lies along the realm of just a submissive partner in general.) Keep in mind, I am looking for before hand planning("Porn Hunting") for inspiration. Consists of the submissive listening to my desires and helping me to find pornographic images, similar to my wants/kinks, as well as theirs and also to inspire an RP moment. I have a passion for details both about myself and about others, so I love to know clothes details, bodily details, make up etc. Role Play may be anything and everything, so any other ideas you may have feel free to come to me with, along with pictures. However what I primarily seek and have a special place for is: Transformation Gender Play but other than that I am open minded to all types of sexual situations of course. If this is your cup of tea, read forward.
In terms of "kinks" and "fetishes" I would have to say it's ever evolving and quite an open book. However as of right now, my interests are: orgasm control/edging/teasing/denial, roleplay writing(obviously lol) and most importantly just the mental aspect of being dominant and in control. What I mean by "mental aspect" of control I mean I'm not going to pound my chest and be like "Me Master, you be my bitch" because that is obviously not me and in poor taste on my part. I just wanted to make it known that's what I am intrigued in. However, for me, I don't particularly believe being dominant is all about the physical side of being dominant. To me it's far more deeper and on a more mental level than just say "tying someone up." Don't get me wrong I have nothing against doing that either but you get my drift. On a side note, in terms of "vanilla" kinks, I do have a huge weakness for legs(high heels, stockings, etc) and eyes. Consider my "legs and eyes" as my "tits and ass" that most typical men gawk at. And lastly, the more simplest kink would be my addiction to porn photos on the web(pictures.) I may be a romantic type but I am a guy after all; all men have this addiction regardless.
Now to dive in a bit deeper as to my kinks and sexual interests: I am Dominant bi sexual(almost even pansexual) male. I do, however, have slight switch tendencies from time to time but dominant even in those situations as well. I'm looking for something specific; a sequence of events that lead to an intriguing RP. Keep in mind, I am looking for before hand planning("Porn Hunting") for inspiration. Consists of the submissive listening to my desires and helping me to find pornographic images, similar to my wants/kinks, as well as theirs and also to inspire an RP moment. I have a passion for details both about myself and about others, so I love to know clothes details, bodily details, make up etc. Role Play may be anything and everything, so any other ideas you may have feel free to come to me with, along with pictures. However what I primarily seek and have a special place for is: Transformation Gender Play but other than that I am open minded to all types of sexual situations of course.
The point of this "porn hunting" is to help you learn my tastes but also learn how I want you to illustrate things when we do RP. It will also help you see what I look for as well. The overall plot I always been wanting to explore revolves around the story of two best male best friends(I do not have the luxury of many friends) and how we "bro out" to porn. First by gawking at and literally picking the pictures apart and then slowly gradually noticing things in the porn that make us both realize in "self discovery/epitome fashion" together that "hey, maybe being a chick is a sweet deal." In other words, the appeal of power and money (free drinks, club life etc) is what "tricks us"....That will be how we justify wanting to be a chick without sounding "gay" so to speak. It's a bit of a mix between orientation play, denial and simply a "twisted bromance." Also, one thing to take note is the manipulation flow. The "vexed porn" will poison your mind with this self-discovery first and then the way it will infect my mind is by you "selling/manipulating" the idea you just discovered and preach it to me as you porn hunt.
As I mentioned before, what I want us to have initially is a "bromance/jock" type of dynamic together. What that means is, I want more of a laid back conversation flow/style; I believe the slang term is "chat speak." I know it seems a bit rudimentary but oddly it is something that pleases me(I don't usually talk this way in real life.) I want there to be more of a laid back style of talking with one another; call each other "bro, dude, man." I want us to make jokes with each other, laugh, say lol. I want there to be also a hint of orientation banter/homoerotic jokes even borderline flirtation but in a denial sort of sense(if that makes ANY sense lol.) Don't be TOO much of an ass or be too mean. Remember we are best friends. Show some sense of warmth. Now, in terms of what I want you to pay attention for when we "gawk at bitches" so to speak is that I want you to verbally gawk at the women with me; pick apart the photo, describe the photo and what you enjoy in colorful "eye candy" detail. I don't mean just to say "check those legs and heels on that babe" but instead describe the heels, what color heels, what kind, and how her legs look, the skin tone etc. Also, keep in mind if I zone in on a specific part of the pic that is your cue to describe specifically that part with me. I want you to describe the pic as if it is not in front of us, pick apart and visualize the photo of what you enjoy(and even dislike) in true "bro" fashion. It's a way for you to not only learn my tastes but also to get into the style of inadvertently pleasing your "bud" with our "circle jerk" sort of porn session. Think of it also as an interactive approach to training you to learn my tastes and wants as potentially my switch/submissive.
To elaborate on how the transformation kicks in is like this. It happens once we really hone in at the point of looking at really "kick ass pics" that resonate those values we discover when we "circle jerk." What it leads to is us slowly transforming almost in sort of a hypnosis where it starts with our vocab and personality and goes from there. In other words, we talk as "bros" to "bffs" And lastly it gets even worse. It goes to the point that the pics we are talking about are actually us in different snap shots of our lives.
Now that's me overall in a nutshell. As you can see, I seek something as you can tell a bit more....specific. I come online because I have no where else to go to find what I am looking for. I do not know if joining this site was the right choice in my endedevour in what I seek but I honestly have no where else to look. I'm looking for someone in this "lifestyle" but at the same token looking for something more than just "shits and giggles" so to speak. I'm here to find my "Alice" (the name I've grown to use as the name of what I ideally seek.) I've succumbed down the rabbit hole to see where wonderland takes me. Will I find her? I do not know. But regardless of the fact, everyone is a bit mad no matter who you are.
If any of this intrigues you, feel free to email me at: [email protected]
- Kinks:
Behavioral Training, Orgasm Allowance/Denial, Chastity, High Heels, Legs, Gender Transformation, Bimbofication, Sissification....Basically, a long-term twisted romance
- Experience:
Very knowledgable of the lifestyle; Approximately 2 years. One serious relationship in that time.
- Limits:
Fairly open minded but will be discussed when contacted.
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