Dr-BambiPsyD

WARNING: LONG ASS BIO AHEAD!!! READ AT YOUR OWN RISK

To the people in my personal life, I come across as submissive and cute. Hell, I even use the name of the cute deer from the iconic Disney movie as my nickname online!

I'm the last person one would expect to speak out against authority or correct others, whether it's a professor in the classroom, a group member I'm working with in class, family member, or even a waiter who got my order wrong.

But you know what they say about judging a book by its cover, don't you?

Behind closed doors, it's either my way, or the highway! If you're looking for a sub or a pushover, I ain't it, but I hope you find what you're looking for! :3

Hi, I'm Bambi! I'm 20 years old as of now, and I'm a newcomer to the kink scene as a Domme. Once we get acquainted, feel free to call me Mistress

About me

Ah, ah, ah, not so fast! I'm more than just my kinks. Let's get to know the woman you might call Mistress if all goes well!

I'm a proud Cuban-American and member of the skittle squad, as a queer and demisexual individual ! I'm also (allegedly) neurodivergent.

I aspire to be a therapist, so feel free to vent (at your own risk. I don't even have my bachelors degree yet ffs). I'm pretty shy, so you probably won't see me post much around here. I'm a hell of a smartass, so get ready for a lot of sarcasm and deadpan responses. And dad jokes and puns. Can't forget about those!

Outside of kink, I like to keep myself busy with a variety of hobbies and passions. I'm a nature enthusiast and can talk your ear off about biology, the environment, and even extinct creatures! I also enjoy the fine and performance arts, regularly attending opera and theater productions.

In my free time, I like to play guitar, draw, and write stories. I'm no Jimi Hendrix, Stephen King, or Michelangelo. For what is worth, I enjoy what I do! My favorite genres of music are rock, folk, metal, punk, and old-school country (think Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Dolly Parton, etc.).

You can also find me gaming. I'm a sucker for RPGS, fantasy games, open worlds, and sandbox games. My favorite RPG series being Fallout, my favorite sandbox game being Minecraft, and my fantasy series being a tie between The Elder Scrolls and God of War. These are basic titles, don't get me wrong, but I'm also a basic bitch so it is what it is LOL

Aside from becoming a mental health professional for people with highly stigmatized mental disorders (like schizophrenia, DID, personality disorders, and such) and marginalized folks, another big (albeit unrealistic and ambitious LOL) aspiration of mine is to become a fiction writer! I've got plenty of drafts that won't see the light of day for years to come. Who knows, maybe our aftercare sessions can involve a little story time? I'll even do the voices if you so choose

What do I look like?

I'm 4'11.8, but I SWEAR TO GOD I'm 5'0 if you just rounded up >:[
I'm about 100-ish pounds. Though I'll tell you THIS for free, the curves I do have are to die for If you're the type who loves thighs and a nice ass, you're in for a nice surprise too

I have short, curly brown hair with highlights throughout. I wear glasses, and have brown eyes. Some have even dared to say I have pretty eyes! Oh, and did I mention my dimples and my baby face? :3

What are my kinks?

That's something I'm still exploring. BUT I can safely say I know what I want

Some of my kinks are degrading, humiliation, petplay, impact play, brat taming, chastity, edging, and orgasm control. I've also got a thing for size differences, so bonus points if you're much bigger than me

A very oddly specific thing I am getting into is tactical gear. Of which CoD is mostly to blame for. Jokes aside, if you the type of mf who wears tactical gear, hit me tf UP!

Here's my kinklist for further info!
https://i.imgur.com/EXfscqt.png

Ageplay, watersports, temperature play, CBT, and breath play are maybes.

My hard limits are scat, incest, raceplay, sissification, CNC, and exhibitionism.

Additional Info And Boundaries

Now, let's talk about the fine print. I may be a pushover in my day to day life, but these are what I consider the line in the sand. I have boundaries, and just like safewords and hard limits, they will not be up for discussion, debate, or negotiation.

I will NOT be showing my face until I'm 100% comfortable with you.

I will NOT be comfortable sending sexual photos or videos for a long while when talking. I will be willing to have discussions about kink and sex, but while I'm testing the waters, that's about as far as I'd be willing to go

Keep in mind, compatibility inside and outside of kink is very important to me!! I am a dyed in the wool leftist! Following recent events as of November 6, 2024, I refuse to be in contact with anyone who so much as leans to the right, especially for my own safety. And if you hold any stigmatizing beliefs against mental health, we won't get along either.

Piggybacking off of what I said regarding sexual photos/videos, I am NOT a kink dispenser. I'm not here to get off, nor am I here to get anyone off. What I'm not looking for is an online fuck buddy. I want someone I can click with inside and outside of kink with. Ideally, my ultimate goal would be a serious, long-term relationship.

Huge disclaimer, I may respond inconsistently due to various reasons, like depression, anxiety, burnout, academics, family needs, or just distractions just to name a lot. If I don't respond in a few days, feel free to check in on me. I appreciate it, and I'll do the same for you if you're chill with it. Keep in mind, my slow responses don't mean I hate you or forgot about you.

If I:

A.) don't think we're compatible
B.) can't stand your guts
C.) get bad, gross, or downright horrendous vibes from you
Or D.) All the above

I think I'd rather straight up block you instead of ghosting you. Trust me, I'm not that big of a dick, you'll know if I hate you when I block you LOL

If you read this far down the long ass bio I put way too much effort into instead of doing something productive, kudos to you! If you're looking for a cute, smartass domme-in-training who loves to geek out over her favorite things Mistress Bambi might be your girl. I use Skype and Discord to chat, but I won't share those unless you pass the vibe check on here first.

In the meantime don't be shy, send me a PM if you're interested. And don't worry, I won't bite... unless you want me to ;3

"Ever make mistakes in life? Let's make them birds. Yeah, they're birds now." - Bob Ross