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  1. Merlin

    So im new

    That is why he said "before the usual fantasy porn believers drop utter nonsense" ;) A lot people live in a fantasy world when it comes to bdsm
  2. Merlin

    So im new

    As @subzzzero said it is always wise to start slow and be careful What is it you think about if you say punishments? Is it a way of you saying "I want painful tasks"? Real punishments are in general given to change a bad behaviour, not just out of the blue :)
  3. Merlin

    Serious inquiry.

    Being tighter and/or having by nature a smaller pussy could both increase the chance of feeling it, I would assume. But, as you mentioned, make the entering harder too My Dom side had also just the thought that in theory you could bind a men and a women so they cant get the penis out and keep...
  4. Merlin

    Pretty pussy?

    There is also the option of laser hair removal if your hair is dark and the skin light, of course the most costly option
  5. Merlin

    Serious inquiry.

    While it is not really a problem to stay soft when you learned to control your arousal, being able to hit the point of hard enough to enter but not to hard is way more complex. I stay with what I said , the only realistic thing is to go from hard to really hard and the difference (while I can...
  6. Merlin

    Why did you become interested in BDSM or other kinky sex?

    You seam very obsessed with the idea that women hate their sex life in general ... Can you provide the study that shows your 50%+ claim? I know btw the cases you describe exist but from my experience we are nowhere near 50%, and for most women I know that could not orgasm at all (in my...
  7. Merlin

    Serious inquiry.

    Just thinking about what that would need to work, you need to stay soft while entering (does make the getting in part a lot harder up to not even sure it will work). And then once inside concentrate on getting hard ... This kind of sounds like a lot to do for minimal effect Getting from hard...
  8. Merlin

    Why did you become interested in BDSM or other kinky sex?

    I have to agree with @droptokon here , i have never seen , and I am at this for over 20 years now, anyone coming at it from the angle of "vanilla didn't do it enough". As he said it is basically always a pre-existing interest and finally giving it a try for new people no matter the gender. Kink...
  9. Merlin

    Small Breast Humiliation

    You should get the nipples hard at least so there is something protruding from the chest
  10. Merlin

    18 year old switch. Need punishment ideas.

    You give limited information but my fist idea would be having to watch the porn again with a vibe on the clit , but you cant turn it off, even if you orgasm (only works of course if your clit gets painfully sensitive after orgasms), §0 minutes, no stopping, having to endure it if you fail this time
  11. Merlin

    Free use submissive slave looking to do what i love

    Reading posts is for the weak!
  12. Merlin

    Complicated Relationship

    This... Dragging him along while he could be getting over it and looking for someone else. It will hurt him now or later. Should have been ended before the cheating, even now is actually late already
  13. Merlin

    How can i become a better submissive?

    Maybe start to think about why you do things you agreed to not to do? What do you think is the outcome of agreeing and then nor following through? Also you don't say what it is , so a bit hard to say as there is a big difference between a mistake "I tried but failed" and not doing when agreed...
  14. Merlin

    Performance help

    *Tries very hard not to go on a rant about the abysmal US healthcare* I looked a lot less into possible damage when it comes to male anatomy but the idea with nerve damage is technically possible. Rubber bands on for hours is a very bad idea. Also possible damage from areas not getting enough...
  15. Merlin

    needed self punishment ideas

    What do you mean by "self tasks"? "Just" tasks you can do on your own?
  16. Merlin

    Self Bdsm punishment

    Things that are silent would be to use cloth pegs for the breasts and nipples as well as for the pussy lips or even the clit. There are many ways to use them from Doing jumping jacks with pegs on the nipples, over putting them on the pussy lips and playing with the pussy by only touching the...
  17. Merlin

    Hot sauce

    Another little things, a lot hot sauces will include quiet a lot of sugar so using them near or even worse inside the vagina is a relative bad idea. I personally would advice to either use pure chilli mixed with oil or in my mind even better use ginger instead of capsaicin based things as it is...
  18. Merlin

    19y/o desperate sub looking for help torturing and getting off

    And for gods sake don't use sewing needles... for needle play you need medical/piercing grade equipment and should really do classes first
  19. Merlin

    needed punishment ideas

    ... To 3 ... Putting a sauce that can burn your mucus membrane and also often includes sugar inside a pussy is highly idiotic, unless you are really into burns and a vaginal fungal infection... Using ginger is a way safer method but even then I would advice to stay away from the inside and stay...
  20. Merlin

    Deep voice kink

    Seams that science even agrees with your feeling more dominant/leader aspect