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A name for the position or how to do it?

Sweex idea with a kink list is a god idea , one to find what you may find interesting and also to make you both look up the things on the list that you dont know Or feel free to ask if you find something unclear here

Hi and welcome Everyone here has started at some point so no need to apologize for being new. My first tip is take your time, rushing things is often not the best idea, especially as some things require at least some basic knowledge what to do to not be a danger to the persons involved. Read...

Can kink be non sexual? If we go by definition... kinda no, as "kink" is a "non conventional sexual practice" :p Taking it a bit more wide though , as others said , of course. A dom/sub dynamic is about control (for example), sexuality, while often part of it, is in no way necessary for it

Dont think i ever heard of a name for it , doesnt mean there isnt of course Only thing that comes to mind is the idea of a "soft dom". A dom that prefers to be dominant by being supportive and less by being forceful

If i understand it right you are new to all this so lets have a look at your list and what is the difference between the fantasy and reality. Doing some of these things require a lot more than you may think or what porn doesn't show. - Needles through nipples If we are talking about online...

Sitz! Platz! Bei Fuss! Mach Mänchen! Presentiere Hintern! Something like that? ;)

At some point the conversation will need to happen, that said it isn't that different than other sexual aspects And there are also vanilla partners were one is very dominant over the other ... that is not different for the kids

I am out to my friends and family and don't hide much , never was a social suicide. For normal day things it is nothing that is in any way visible or obvious To the big age difference, I had subs that were older than me by a few years and subs that were younger. Is what you say wrong , no...

Not everyone lives in a TPE situation , were all choices lie with 1 partner ;) For me personal i feel like when it comes to kids it is a matter of not forcing things on them, harder with high protocol than with low protocol of course, but it is doable. Just that with, like almost anything, the...

Yeah, was about to write the same , to maybe look out for a kink friendly councilor/psychologist. And work through these things with some help :)

i see both sides there ... it is your right to set that rule and it is their right not not give anything about your rule and ignore it. It wont get them anywhere but they did not agree to follow your rules or protocols I would advice to ignore them if you feel disrespected And to why, can have...

As others have mentioned it is a matter of what clamps you use and to make sure to not have them on for to long. The part no one often seams to mention is that beside of blood flow issues (nipples are one of the few places where that might get a problem) that in my experience nerve damage is...

A bit humiliation or being made to blush can be part of the reward for doing something well too ;)

Wat is your definition of safe?

I am sure someone is very eager this morning ;)

CnC is a complex subject, it is clearly not for everyone and can be extremely stressful. That is why i would advice people in general to only slowly getting into it and to only do it with a person that you know very well and that also knows you very well, so they can judge your reactions I...

let me translate: starting to clearly show and admitting it only makes it worse

And new ones getting wet again from admitting it?