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  1. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    you should tell the people that you soaked the panties that bad that you needed to be told to change them
  2. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    almost one every minute , someone must have been very horny
  3. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    Ever edged that often? Must feel all very sensitive
  4. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    As it is your birthday i will be nice , i give you a yes if you agree to not have it before ... 6pm today
  5. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    But what if i enjoy you so desperate? maybe if 19 vote no you cant until a lot later
  6. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    Does the begging make you more desperate?
  7. Merlin

    Permission from 19 people, ASAP!!

    Oh , is someone horny? So you think i should say yes?
  8. Merlin

    Straight Male Dominant 42 Looking for a female or couple to submit

    42/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place Let me give this another try, again Hi, i am Merlin from Germany, to be honest i find writing text like that annoying but here we go :p After me being without a relationship and only short term arrangements for a bit now i feel like i want to...
  9. Merlin

    Female Switch.. with a Vanilla Spouse..

    Hi, also a welcome from me As dropton said this is a common thing, there is a good amount of people that get into d/s even at an early age but for a lot it is something that blooms up later in their life, that often comes with already existing vanilla relationships. And that makes things very...
  10. Merlin

    Female mistress looking for subs

    The post was from nearly a year ago, she was last on here in February... Use your other brain and check from when a post is ;) Closed
  11. Merlin

    Good boy/girl kink

    In my experience, positive reinforcement is way more effective than negative one. Good boy/girl is a nice and short way to say "i am proud of you , you did great" for me
  12. Merlin

    Finding a Femdom

    fetlife has some events showing , or look for bdsm clubs in your area and ask there if they have a local one, chances in bigger cities are of course higher but no harm in trying
  13. Merlin

    Finding a Femdom

    If you are looking for in person i would advice to look for local munch, Meeting people there to get a feeling for the scene
  14. Merlin

    What is written on the slut?

    What is written on the slut?
  15. Merlin

    Does this classify as femdom?

    Not weird but no, that has nothing to do with Dominant or submissive. (femdom just means the female is dominant). As it is dirty talking with a bit humiliation, no transfer of control This is a kink you have, not more or less, but that is fine
  16. Merlin

    Guilty Dom?

    One thing you should always have in mind , especially with a new person, is the fantasy is not reality and while something feels great in your head it may not so really doing it. This means in general you want to really go slow with new things, and talk about it after every little step. Does...
  17. Merlin

    Discipline, the other D of BDSM

    For me personally the central aspect here is that that sub wants to submit, has the discipline to do so, less a factor or training or skill Disciplined as in someone following orders without straying from them But interesting how many things can be in the one word
  18. Merlin

    Beginner dom tips

    They tend to be on neutral ground and no need to tell anyone in general, but i understand your point What is your gf saying to what you do so far?
  19. Merlin

    Beginner dom tips

    Very good points from Droptokon What i want to add is , remember there is nothing wrong with asking your gf about things, especially if she has more experience. And for everything, communication is key
  20. Merlin

    Need Advice on Pegging Beginner

    i find it a very bad idea to react to "i feel not comfortable doing it" with basically "just do it anyway". This is highly problematic and a very bad advice! Even more so to "don't bother to discuss"... The most essential thing in any relationship is to communicate! To not do that is a direct...