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42/male/dom seeks any age/female/sub in any place [/CENTER] Let me give this another try, again Hi, i am Merlin from Germany, to be honest i find writing text like that annoying but here we go :p After me being without a relationship and only short term arrangements for a bit now i feel like...

Yeah in general ones that are leather based are better at preventing masturbating in my experience, unlike metal ones , unless they are made for you by a smith and tailored to your body , and even then you can get things under them. But you sure don't want to wear leather based ones over longer...

Fair point, but i wanted to point out that your connection there is not really following the definition and more connected with the kind of dom you personally seam to attract Especially for new people i would find it not optimal to make this connection Even more so if i think of clinical (!!)...

sadist a person who gets pleasure, sometimes sexual, by being cruel to or hurting another person narcissist someone who has too much admiration for himself or herself There is really no connection at all between them ... (And a clinical narcissist would be on another level even)

What makes you think that? While i would agree that it is less common than for example hand/finger fetish in women it sure does exist. And at the same time i would not say most men have it either. It is a very common fetish for sure compared to other fetishes (!), but most men and women don't...

It is just a concept hard to understand for someone not into it, It is a hard concept if you just look at it from the outside That said 50 shads portraits more an abusive relationship than a healthy D/s dynamic, as the Author seams to be one of the people that don't understand someone submitting...

While i am one of the people that knew it very early it is super common for people not getting into D/s before their 40s, no need to worry , clearly not alone there

To be honest I think that advice is not really possible and more a "sounds nice until you think of it" idea, there is nothing only 1 person can do. I never met a sub that made me think "oh wow, only she can do this!!". And i don't think I ever will. Did she tell you what only she can do? I...

The most important part of any relationship is communication, this is even more true in a D/s situation. Why dont you talk with him what he had in mind with it? Talk with him about that you feel unsure , you both can look into it and look for a solution that way that you both agree with. And...

My thought to that is, as long a you did not both talk and agreed that this is a long term goal you should really be fine with accepting it never to happen. Without knowing it is simply wishfull thinking from your side. She may want it too, she may want it in the future or she simply is fine...

If i understand that correctly you talked with her about it before, why do you think her view on the subject has changed? The question you need to answer to yourself is if you are fine with how it is at the moment with you looking after her and paying money for her and getting what she is...

That really depends on the girl. Even on the day , how she is doing, time of the mont ... etc. There is no answer to your question that will be correct for every woman and can range from having a lot orgasms in a row to non at all. How fast it gets unpleasant is very differnt from women to...

I do like exposed clits, but why the question?

Hi, i am Merlin from Germany, to be honest i find writing text like that annoying so blatant copy of my text on getdare After me being without a relationship and only short term arrangements for a bit now i feel like i want to look for a more dedicated sub again. And with covid still around i...

Or start by testing them on a less sensitive area first at least... Allergic reactions are not nice if it involves things like a vagina ;)

As poetrylover said the question has not one answer, as it depends on your wife and what you both need out of it. Ask her what she needs from a dominant , look in what you need as dominant and finding the common ground is really the first thing you both should do. After that conversation when...

Exactly, there are things that people like to call hypnosis but are closer to conditioning for example. What did you see that you found interesting , and it is fine if it is only vague. Then it might be easier to give an answer to if that is something possible and if it falls under hypnosis or...

Yells at you ;) To your question, yes hypnosis is a real thing and some use it in a dominant /submissive context , but it is working different than some people like to present it. Hypnosis is no mind control for example. Maybe to get a better answer you could say what idea you have of what...

Lets see, you do assume she has with 22 trained stretching her pussy well enough to take 3 dildos, that you dont know how they look like? Dont get me wrong this is doable by a fracture of women, especially after they had a child or two, but to just assume it, especially at an age of 22, is...