That depends on you. I'm not submissive, I do not take orders, but i do enjoy giving up control when asked nicely. I also like being in control sometimes, but nicely, I don't give orders. That is why I selected switch to describe myself.
I have found that I really like sitting outside with no shirt and just an open jacket. I can flash my camera whenever I want and I enjoy the risk of someone walking by and seeing my breasts but I can quickly close the jacket if I feel the risk is too great.