I cant really drop it. The BDSM lifestyle is an important part of my life, and I know it is hers.
Open relationships or thirds definitely wont work for either of us. Spiritually we are STRICTLY Monogamous. We are not christian or catholic or anything, but our religious ideologies DO dictate...
So honestly I came here looking for advice. I have a major conundrum. I have been with the same woman for nearly 8 years (this is NOT a "well I am having second thoughts" post)... We started our relationship as somewhat switch. We both wore collars, however I somehow stupidly agreed to be the...