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Indeed. So is the frequency of this happening.

Let me weigh in on my experience here. I have found a few beautiful people online to whom I'm still connected, including my beautiful sub. With almost all those people, it started as a quick fling. Something really casual which grew into something really sweet and special. It started with...

Hello there. Quite specific questions about a very broad term there. So I'm gonna dig deep and start from the basics rather than going specifically to your questions. First things first, there are different types of pain and the answer to your questions can vary greatly based on this. I can...

Good god! Where do you get this info from?? What is the base of such statement? And what evidence or on what base are you stating it apart from your insane self-judgements? BDSM and kink revolves around certain principles and it's sound in all cases. Learn what it is ans how to practice it...

Hello there. All acts in BDSM comes with a level of risk. It is very important to understand the risk involved l, discuss and decide whether or not to proceed together with your partner. Chemical play particularly involves a lot of risk factors and it is very important to keep in mind that once...

Hello there. Before you close the thread, I have a couple of tasks for you. First do 25 hits with the ruler while your ass is wet. Make your ass really wet. You can also do it in the shower if you want. For the second one, keep the ruler between your ass cheeks and hold it with your ass...

The best way to get answer will be to talk to the person on the receiving end. What he likes. But here are some other ideas. Using hands. You can use them in different ways to stroke. Single hand, both hands. The motion can also be changed. Stroke it up and down, in a rotating motion while...

It'd be really great if you give a little bit more information on this. Do you have any particular pet in mind? Or do you enjoy the feeling of being a pet? If you are into a particular animal as pet play, you can get tasks accordingly. For example, if it's a dog, you can have a leash and a...

If you know the basics of rope, then it can be easily done. It's really really tough to explain in words. I do know how it to do it tho. This is a basic rope bra harness with two belt pieces, a simplified gote. You can so the same without the belt piece as well.

Hey Penelope. I don't think anyone here is trying to say what you're doing is right or wrong. It's your life and at the end of the day, you're the decision maker and you are the one who has to live with it. Rather, from what we've heard, they're all just trying to help you realise and get out...

Please refrain from using pornhub as a learning platform for bdsm. While I have nothing against pornhub, but it is a completely commercial platform and doesn't reflect the reality 99percent of the time. There are a lot of websites and platforms where you can find fellow kinksters and mentors...

I'm glad it was useful and even more glad that you are learning. First thing you need to learn is that, bdsm and d/s is not a hard ans fast set of rules. They're more like water. It is made up of certain basic principles like consent, safety etc and take it takes the shape what you make of it...

That depends how you perceive the D/S. If you see it as a dynamic where it's all rough and tough and that's the only way, it'll be weird. While I respect that that's your view and you want to proceed with it, (if you do), that's not the only way to look at D/S. Also, I wouldn't consider it as...

Hello Penelope Glad you are having fun. I'll contribute a little to the discussion. I'd strongly suggest that you discuss the pre session and post session things as much as you discuss about what happens during the session. Before the session begins, it's very important that you both have...

Also, once you have the 'plug' made out of it, you can edge with it in. But make sure it has a good strong base and your position isn't putting a lot of pressure on it to break it. I hope you aren't someone who don't clench when you are close. If you aren't, then it'll be a really good...

I'd like to add a couple more points to the helpful ones mentioned above. First one is surface tension. If you can alter the surface tension of the place of impact, it is definitely going to make a difference in the intensity of the impact. For example, wet surface spanking. If your ass or the...

I'd like both updates and pics if possible. And I'll give you further tasks as you update.

Hello there. Even though you've given a lot of details here, why don't you provide what your limits. I'd also like to have a clarification about the things you mentioned that you're ok with. Are they your likes or are you indifferent towards it? Anyways, for the tasks I'm gonna start with a...

I'd contribute with a couple of tasks. I'm not sure what things you have with you that I could use, so I'll stick to some easily doable tasks at first. First task, use a marker to write "whore" "slut" "cunt" on the upper sides of your left middle, ring and small fingers respectively. See the...

Hello!! Good to see that you're really interested in being the submissive. However, it'd be really difficult for someone to "train" you to the best submissive. I get the sentiment behind the words. But like people suggested above, you have to know what suits you the best. Try to have a picture...