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Thanks! I guess really what I’m describing is simply a “caregiver/little” situation. The little is definitely more “in charge” than I am, and she does play a dominant role in her adult life, but it’s probably a stretch to say that she’s actually a little domme. I was confused since so much of...

I’ve been reading up on age play and everything is oriented around the little playing a sub role. The closest I’ve found is brat, but even then the little is still in the bottom role, just with some understood “fighting back”. Basically the dynamic I’m trying to describe is SD/LG (submissive...

Prop your hips against the wall, facing up with your shoulders on the floor. Rest an ice cube on your pussy lips and hold that position until it melts completely. Report back and tell me how it feels.

My teenage son asked me to buy him one of these. It’s strange, he’s never taken an interest in pet grooming before. Jokes aside, do you think this could actually be a decent economy-class stroker?

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The first time I managed to get a plug inside, I was surprised that it took almost as much patience, deliberate relaxation, slow breathing, and lube to get it back out. So just recognize that all the great advice above applies both coming and going.

The other day I went to get a massage from my favorite spot, and told the masseuse “Hard pressure, the harder the better.” She asked “Do you want me to walk on your back?” I said that sounded amazing. She moved me to a room with a stronger table that could support both our weight and climbed...

My first turn-on was white cotton socks. Not a fetish or a kink, but any sexy image of a woman would be made just that much hotter with the addition of some bleach-white athletic socks. @asimplefetish67 We should start a club: white cotton undergarments!

😃 Something really cool—even though the physical aspects of our sex are still 99% vanilla, the emotional dynamic of explicit D/s has made it so unbelievably satisfying for both of us. We just didn’t know what we were missing before.

I can’t quite believe it, but it happened—I came out to my wife and it’s actually been really good! The way it played out was that she kept apologizing for “making me” do so much around the house. When she did that it really interfered with my ability to experience the satisfaction of service...

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Rimming, along with anything that could involve poop, is always going to be at least a little bit RACK. But all the resources I’ve found talk about all the risks in one big list, rather than separating out those that are only acquired (such as Hepatitis A) vs present in every body (such as E...

Clover nipple clamps. I’ve got an idea for a “predicament harness” that I can wear all day under clothes. I tried with regular spring clamps and the pull just doesn’t do what I need.

A brief follow up. I’m slowly starting the process of coming out to my wife. It started when she would apologize for making me do so many chores, and eventually I stopped her and said “no, thank you—I _want_ to do them”. Any time we had this kind of conversation I would find myself getting hot...

I recently got an Apple Watch with the silicone sport band and was delighted to discover that it fits nice and snug around my cock below the balls. It’s especially nice because I can adjust the tension depending on the situation. I didn’t see anyone else mention this in a search so I wanted...

Give this a try. (Larks head single column) I did it on myself and it works like a charm. https://crash-restraint.com/ties/19 ETA: this is the type of knot mentioned above, with a video demo and explanation.

Definitely start small. Even if you’ve messed around with fingers a lot, there’s something about the feedback and geometry that’s different when working with something inanimate. I just started with anal play recently and it took a few sessions with my toy before I managed to get it all the...

A really important thing that is not often mentioned—go in at an angle! If you try to go straight in you’ll find it’s actually not lined up with your anatomy. Point toward your front about 45 degrees so the wide part of the toy has the easiest time passing through.

Thank you! This is really good food for thought. You’re exactly right, option 1 is really my only avenue forward. The point about wanting more as time goes on is particularly well taken. I hadn’t thought about it explicitly, but my mind has been idly moving in that direction. I will be...

TL;DR I’m a newly self-identified sub married to a strictly vanilla person. I’m looking for suggestions on how to explore my sub side within the constraints of my current life. I’ve been going through a rapid period of self discovery recently, and I wanted to see if anyone here has been in or...