fetishes & kinks

Anything can be a fetish right? Let's define fetish for all the newbies. A form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object, activity, or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. Bondage..., there's slavery and servitude, being bound by compulsion...

I've read a lot of threads that ask as to how to get started with BDSM and kink safely. I looked around a lot when I was new. When I started off, I did not know where to go because I started on how to explore kink alone. A really good book that I found online is Kink ME Please! I highly...