marriage

Hello, I know this is going to get longwinded but if you have the inclination to hear my story I’d really appreciate other perspectives on the decision I need to make. Over the last month, my husband’s secret life (minimum ten years) has gradually been disclosed. The admissions have only come...

I know I have to really explain this thread. Some people feel that being married automatically guarantees that you and your mate suppose to trust each other. If you had to chose between getting married and just living together but have a trusting relationship, which would you choose?