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  1. S

    Bisexual Female Submissive 25 Shy but interested in trying out Sub/ Little Fetish

    So I recently took a bdsm test and I found my results intriguing regarding my personal interest in being submissive and a little. I’m a 25 year old female looking for a male and open to either a relationship or just online play but need someone who is gentle and willing to create a nurturing...
  2. X

    Dom thinking he wants to sub

    So typically I’m the Dom with my wife and always in control. However I recently saw a few TikToks that gave me goosebumps and had me feeling tingly. Have no idea what it’s supposed to mean but I have been watching femDom videos all day. My wife is a sub only tho, and idk if she would have it in...
  3. L

    Are these red flags?

    I’m very new to BDSM/Kinks, all my past sexual relationships have been very vanilla. Ive been seeing this guy for the past few months, and he is into a ton of different things. femdom/mommy/sph/degredation/cuckolding.... and others. Im open minded and have been having fun learning about and...
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    Gay Male Switch Los Angeles 25 Masochistic Chubby Bottom looking for loving Sadistic Master

    I’m a cute chubby easily excitable stoner punk type. I’m 6’1, 195 lbs, Latino, Creative and destructive type. I like getting kissed, hugged, fucked, bred, deepthroating cock, having my hair pulled and facefucked, getting spanked, body contact. Im interested in getting gagged, blindfolded...
  5. dekupink

    New To This

    Sorry if this isn't the right thread or forum to post something like this. I've never done this or even heard of this website until 20 minutes ago. I've recently started to indulge in my "kinkier" side, as I've always been pretty vanilla with secretly some not so vanilla interests. However, I...
  6. Ddlg4life89

    Need members

    I’ve recently started a BDSM educational and chat page on Facebook and we are looking for member of interested https://www.facebook.com/groups/562166237790193/?ref=share
  7. E

    need some beginner help

    I'm new to self bondage and i was wondering if anyone knew a website ot two where i could learn the basics of how to tie myself up:p
  8. K

    Allow me to introduce myself~ New Switch!

    Hi all :3 I'm 24 and I've just recently gotten into kink and was looking for a community to talk about this stuff with. The only other kinky person I know is the guy who actually helped me discover this side of myself, in fact. Aaaand, since I'm a writer, I guess the best way I can do this is...
  9. B

    Male sub new to bdsm

    Hi, my name is mike. I'm new to bdsm and I'm looking for a mistress, my kik name is: badboy5743
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    Hello everyone =)

    I've just joined this site so I thought I'd introduce myself here, I'm 25 from Manchester UK :) Looking for girls/women in Manchester or surrounding areas who want discreet bdsm play (doesn't have to be sexual) I'm particularly interested in petplay =) feel free to message me.
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    19 male looking for mistress

    I'm new to this kind of stuff... I'm looking for a female mistress who can dominate me, but I'd like to start with something not so rough... Males will be blocked, if interested leave here your email or Kik.
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    What Am I?

    My first ever sexual relationship was a BDSM one. I was a slave. I set no hard limits and often found that I was NOT enjoying myself but pleasing my boyfriend was essential and I continued. c.2011 My next few relationships were not BDSM, but they were rough and I wanted them to go a step...
  13. DersePrince

    New but Eager Trans Sub

    Hi there, I'm fairly new to the scene but I would like to have either a master or a mistress for something online. I can't post photos or videos as it can affect my job but I wouldn't mind chatting through pm or even my skype. I don't fully know kinks or limits but I am willing to try if...