suggestions?

I've recently acquired a slave (via kik) and I have no idea what to do with him. Suggestions please? His limits are scat and family, and he really wants his femdom to make him submit.

Hello, I'm female who often tops for another female. She's into pain and really like Thud sensations but has a very high tolerance for it. I find I don't have the physical strength to hit as hard as I'd like nor to keep it up as long as I'd like. Any recommendations as far as what I can use...