18 year old switch. Need punishment ideas.

switchgirl

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I made a vow sort of to not cum before 30 minutes of being plugged and teasing myself with online videos and stories of BDSM porn. I failed and only made it 19 minutes. I need punishment ideas that are not going to be that loud as I live with my parents.
My limits are blood, gore, scat, needles, anything that causes permanent damage.
 

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You give limited information but my fist idea would be having to watch the porn again with a vibe on the clit , but you cant turn it off, even if you orgasm (only works of course if your clit gets painfully sensitive after orgasms), §0 minutes, no stopping, having to endure it if you fail this time
 

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This really just sounds like you need more practice with edging. No amount of punishing is going to fix it. You more just need better technique and more practice.

To extend your edging and hold off time start doing more consistent stimulation. Like don’t go all out at once. Maybe just the plug and porn. Or just porn and rubbing no plug. You’re essentially just trying to condition yourself to last longer. If you notice you’re getting too close to cum. Pull
Off immediately and don’t add stimulation back until you’ve completely come back down again. Keep working in that manner to gradually increase control

That all being said. Adding likes dislikes and toys objects avail would def help improve your “punishment” suggestions here.
 
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2 hours of clamped nipples and clit, combined with wearing your plug and watching porn, and absolutely strict NO touching or cuming for you for 24hrs. If you fail start over and add clamps over the clamps as well as toothpaste zo the plug to increase preassure and pain
 

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