2 questions regarding the fake rape(rape play) kink

[IanH]

I've heard most guys into rape play get off by fantasizing about being the one doing the "forcing," but for some reason, I get off on the thought of someone forcing themselves onto me. Obviously, I don't want the real deal to happen to me in real life, but the thought is something I get off on, and may be something I could talk to a future sexual partner about.

My questions:
1) Is it common for guys to get off this way?
2) Does this fall under the BDSM category?

 

[FetishandpainCPL]

Yes I would say not as much about the gender but the role a lot of sub have that fantasy, and yes is a role play as any other.