I'm looking for someone intelligent who really knows how to humiliate, control and hurt me psychologically. Although I don't mind mild physical pain, that is not what I'm looking for. The main thing I want is someone who is good at the mental aspect of dominating. For example, using mental abuse tactics like showing just enough affection for me to feel cared for, then turning right back to being abusive, manipulative and controlling. If you do this the right way, I'll end up doing anything to please you, no matter how degrading or humiliating in a desperate attempt to get some affection and love again. I want to develop an unhealthy obsession with one person who treats me like utter shit.