Hello everybody - before I continue this ad: I fit the "Married... with Children" category so feel free to close this page in case you are scared off.
In case you keep reading, my wife is well aware (and sometimes partaking) in my activities on here and we strictly separate kink and vanilla life.
My ad will put quite some detail into what I am looking for so be prepared to invest some time to read it. If you want to know more about why I prefer comprehensive ads give my blog post (on GD) a read.
Personal information / looks
I am a 34 years old dom from Austria. I am caucasian, 5'9" tall, slim/athletic, got blonde hair and blue eyes and no tattoos or piercings.
I am a computer scientist with a focus on health/sports/wellbeing for a living. My hobbies are music (playing the guitar), video games, movies/serials/anime, reading (mainly fantasy and sci-fi) and sports (preferably outdoors accompanied by my dogs) to make up for sitting idle most of the time.
About me as a dom
I have been a dom for about 14 years now but only trained a limited amount of subs during that time since I am committing to promising long-term relationships only.
In general I do not control every part of my subs life and I am not excessively strict but I expect my sub to make progress according to my expectations.
I like being in control, assigning tasks and dares to my sub, various kinds of roleplay and semi-public. All the "hardcore" stuff (blood, scat) is a turn-off as well as a lack of interest or intelligence. Apart from that I am rather open-minded and willing to challenge your curiosity. A more detailed list of likes/dislikes can be found on my profile.
What kind of sub I am looking for
I am looking for a female sub at the age of 18-30 for a long-term exclusive online relationship. I might be willing for some offline sessions with the right partner if the opportunity comes up and enough trust is established. Beginners are very welcome.
Most importantly I am looking for a loving & caring D/s relationship. I want to guide by the use of affection and psychology instead of fear. More detailed thoughts about this can be found in my blog post (on GD).
The communication will mainly take place via chat/mail/diary and possibly in an asynchronous manner depending on my working hours and your time zone. I highly prefer the usage of a laptop or PC due to the superior input modalities but that is just my personal preference. Since I am living in the UTC+01 time zone anything close to that is preferred but not essential. I am usually spending 2-3 work days outside home with some leeway for "active play time". My usual online times are around 6pm to 1am local time but I check my mail almost constantly.
In general I want to get in touch regularly/daily (even if it is just a short "Good morning" / "Good night") but I will not be available 24/7 and do not expect you to be either unless a task requires it.
A webcam is not required but you should be willing to exchange pictures at some point since I am looking for a relationship that is pleasant on both the verbal and visual level and you will have to send proof for your tasks every now and then. I am not going to push for it before establishing some trust but it is a necessity afterwards. I know this is a complex topic. You can take a look at my thoughts about it in this blog post (on GD).
You should have good grammar in either English or German.
What I plan to do with you
As already mentioned I like to assign tasks and dares to my sub. You will receive comprehensive new tasks and dares via chat/mail at least once a week. Those tasks can be online and offline tasks and one-time tasks as well as daily routines. The task list will adapt to your commitment and needs and your previous results. Some of the tasks/dares will also require more frequent message exchange or live sessions.
My main objective is to improve you as an individual. I am well aware of my peculiar wording but it is the essence of what I am striving for - it may be personal, physical, academic, ... goals - my aim is to guide you towards being the person you want to be, your "best self".
In case we got to know each other better, you are open for it and you are not living thousands of miles away, I might also consider to send props to your home or a PO box.
What's next?
You got that far and you are still interested? - Great!
To make things easier and improve the result I have set up a small application template at the end of my post. Please take it serious, invest some time and respond via PM.
I guarantee to read every application thoroughly and respond to everybody. Every sub that appears suitable at first sight will be invited to a private chat/mail exchange in order to get to know each other better, ask more private questions and exchange a first picture.
Application template
- Personal information (name, age, location, online times, living circumstances, education/job, hobbies, ...)
- Looks (nationality, hair color, eye color, height, weight/physique, cup size, tattoos/piercings, ...)
- Likes / dislikes
- Describe your personality (e.g. are you shy, playful, disciplined)
- Describe your previous experiences
- What do you expect from our dom/sub relationship?
- What made you reply to this ad and why should I choose you to be my sub?
- (Optional): Any further information (e.g. what is your biggest erotic fantasy, what is your idea of a perfect day, ...)
- (Optional): A picture of you
Again, thank you very much for reading that far. I am looking forward to your responses.
In case you keep reading, my wife is well aware (and sometimes partaking) in my activities on here and we strictly separate kink and vanilla life.
My ad will put quite some detail into what I am looking for so be prepared to invest some time to read it. If you want to know more about why I prefer comprehensive ads give my blog post (on GD) a read.
Personal information / looks
I am a 34 years old dom from Austria. I am caucasian, 5'9" tall, slim/athletic, got blonde hair and blue eyes and no tattoos or piercings.
I am a computer scientist with a focus on health/sports/wellbeing for a living. My hobbies are music (playing the guitar), video games, movies/serials/anime, reading (mainly fantasy and sci-fi) and sports (preferably outdoors accompanied by my dogs) to make up for sitting idle most of the time.
About me as a dom
I have been a dom for about 14 years now but only trained a limited amount of subs during that time since I am committing to promising long-term relationships only.
In general I do not control every part of my subs life and I am not excessively strict but I expect my sub to make progress according to my expectations.
I like being in control, assigning tasks and dares to my sub, various kinds of roleplay and semi-public. All the "hardcore" stuff (blood, scat) is a turn-off as well as a lack of interest or intelligence. Apart from that I am rather open-minded and willing to challenge your curiosity. A more detailed list of likes/dislikes can be found on my profile.
What kind of sub I am looking for
I am looking for a female sub at the age of 18-30 for a long-term exclusive online relationship. I might be willing for some offline sessions with the right partner if the opportunity comes up and enough trust is established. Beginners are very welcome.
Most importantly I am looking for a loving & caring D/s relationship. I want to guide by the use of affection and psychology instead of fear. More detailed thoughts about this can be found in my blog post (on GD).
The communication will mainly take place via chat/mail/diary and possibly in an asynchronous manner depending on my working hours and your time zone. I highly prefer the usage of a laptop or PC due to the superior input modalities but that is just my personal preference. Since I am living in the UTC+01 time zone anything close to that is preferred but not essential. I am usually spending 2-3 work days outside home with some leeway for "active play time". My usual online times are around 6pm to 1am local time but I check my mail almost constantly.
In general I want to get in touch regularly/daily (even if it is just a short "Good morning" / "Good night") but I will not be available 24/7 and do not expect you to be either unless a task requires it.
A webcam is not required but you should be willing to exchange pictures at some point since I am looking for a relationship that is pleasant on both the verbal and visual level and you will have to send proof for your tasks every now and then. I am not going to push for it before establishing some trust but it is a necessity afterwards. I know this is a complex topic. You can take a look at my thoughts about it in this blog post (on GD).
You should have good grammar in either English or German.
What I plan to do with you
As already mentioned I like to assign tasks and dares to my sub. You will receive comprehensive new tasks and dares via chat/mail at least once a week. Those tasks can be online and offline tasks and one-time tasks as well as daily routines. The task list will adapt to your commitment and needs and your previous results. Some of the tasks/dares will also require more frequent message exchange or live sessions.
My main objective is to improve you as an individual. I am well aware of my peculiar wording but it is the essence of what I am striving for - it may be personal, physical, academic, ... goals - my aim is to guide you towards being the person you want to be, your "best self".
In case we got to know each other better, you are open for it and you are not living thousands of miles away, I might also consider to send props to your home or a PO box.
What's next?
You got that far and you are still interested? - Great!
To make things easier and improve the result I have set up a small application template at the end of my post. Please take it serious, invest some time and respond via PM.
I guarantee to read every application thoroughly and respond to everybody. Every sub that appears suitable at first sight will be invited to a private chat/mail exchange in order to get to know each other better, ask more private questions and exchange a first picture.
Application template
- Personal information (name, age, location, online times, living circumstances, education/job, hobbies, ...)
- Looks (nationality, hair color, eye color, height, weight/physique, cup size, tattoos/piercings, ...)
- Likes / dislikes
- Describe your personality (e.g. are you shy, playful, disciplined)
- Describe your previous experiences
- What do you expect from our dom/sub relationship?
- What made you reply to this ad and why should I choose you to be my sub?
- (Optional): Any further information (e.g. what is your biggest erotic fantasy, what is your idea of a perfect day, ...)
- (Optional): A picture of you
Again, thank you very much for reading that far. I am looking forward to your responses.
