ABOUT ME - VANILLA
Hello everyone! My name is Dario and I am a 39 years old Daddy Dom from Palermo, Italy (+1 GMT). I'm 1,77m tall, and weight about 70kg. I have short black hairs and deep green eyes.
I am a cat lover, I enjoy playing videogames and reading hystorical books and mangas, I'm a fan of good food, and I love swimming. I have two bachelor's degrees in History and in Media and Communication. I'm really friendly, talkative and can discuss about any topic even those where I'm not an expert.
My sexual orientation is straight
ABOUT ME - KINKY
Kinky wise, I've been into this lifestyle for 13 years during which I've had several online and in person dynamics but for the moment I plan on keeping things online only with possible future meetings in person if things works and we both want to meet.
I am a Dom. I'm strict and firm, love to set a routine, reinforcements, rules and a structure to the dynamic. My ideal type of D/s dynamic is one with a kind of Total Power Exchange achieved with patience and trust, so starting off slow and take more control with time as we build trust and comfort. Communication is very important to me and even though we surely won't talk 24/7, texting everyday for at least some time is preferred. Play sessions will not necessarily happen everyday, but I will often provide daily tasks to complete during the day. I want us to be open with each other and if there's anything that needs to be adjusted in our dynamic we can openly talk about it so to reach an agreement and make us both and happy, so honesty 100% of the time.
As a Daddy, I really enjoy taking care of my sub, making sure she is happy and spoiled with attentions, I love to give aftercare and I can be very affectionate.
I don't have many requirements when it comes to my ideal kind of sub. I can handle both an experienced or inexperienced sub in need to be trained. I appreciate someone who is not afraid to show her body to her Dom, who knows how to tease, spoil and surprise him and with a decent sex drive. I enjoy talkative and clingy kinds who knows how to keep a conversation even about silly things and someone who has a personality and knows what she wants. Body types or age don't matter to me as well your location, I can work with basically any timezone (Europe is always preferred though)
WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR
I'm pretty flexible when it comes to what I am specifically looking for and what I expect, but there are a few things that are basic requirements for me (some of them are negotiable, some are not):
FIRST: One of my biggest kinks is pictures and videos, and as such I love erotic and sensual photography and videos. I enjoy when my sub teases or pleases me with requested or surprises pictures and videos. I love to make my sub poses or dresses up for me, so being fine with sharing pictures and videos is a requirement and is not negotiable. Pictures and videos as surprises or during playtime or to provide proof of tasks will be requested and they will be saved and stored safely by me and never to be shared online or with anyone else of course. This is not something negotiable, so if you are not comfortable with taking pictures and videos I'm not what you are looking for. Of course I don't expect these things to happen on the first day we meet, we'll take our time to know and trust each other but be aware that they are to be expected, this just to be clear and not waste anyone's time in the hope of a change of mind, as I said it's a requirement and not negotiable
SECOND: As I said body types and character are not important for me. Age doesn't matter as well so as long as you are over 18 I'm fine with any age even older than me. I can easily adapt to my sub lifestyle, so if you want to keep an open dynamic I'm fine with it, I'm mainly monogamous but I've had experiences inside poly dynamics in the past and jealousy is not an issue for me so as long as it's mutual and we are clear, honest and aware of the kind of dynamic we want, I'm open to any proposal. I am of course single at the moment I'm writing this ad
THIRD: Trust is extremely important to me so we would need to be open and honest with each other and openly talk any issues or worries that might come up with time. I always give potential subs a trial period until trust and comfort are enstablished to see if the dynamic can work, with a softer involvement and smaller playtimes and tasks.
FOURTH: Privacy and time alone with my sub is very important to me. It doesn't matter how much and it doesn't have to be everyday, but I prefer to have some private time with my sub regularly. Also a place where to take pictures and videos would be a good plus. I am not a fan highly of phone/voice calls in general, so we will have them every now and then if you like but not for long and not all the time.
HOW WILL WE WORK
As soon as we officially start, I will provide you with a set of rules that we can discuss and change if needed. These will not be set in stone, and they can be modified at any time accordingly to any need that might come up so that they will never interfere with your life
I will start giving you daily tasks that can involve a wide variety of things, from pictures in particular poses or clothing to writings and such. Obiously breaking the deadline or not completing the task unless with a good reason for it, will lead to warnings and eventually to a punishment that of course will never cross your limits
The dynamic I am looking for, is hopefully long term since i value the time and efforts I put into this as bdsm is a serious matter to me and i live it as a lifestyle. Distance and time difference are not a problem for me, I can easily adapt my schedule and I've had many experiences with people with up to 9 hours of difference between us and have always handled it well.
We will start our conversation here in private messages and eventually move to other apps. I can use Kik, Whatsapp, Telegram and Discord but I'm open to suggestions.
KINKS AND LIMITS LIST
Here's a list of my favorite kinks, I'm always open to experimenting new ones
KINKS: Pictures and videos (required), Total Power Exchange, Posing and poses training, Teasing, Overstimulation, Cosplay, Orgasm control and denial, Wardrobe control and dress up, Tits and nipples torture, Daily routine control, Feet play and torture, Legs, Breasts/Nipples play and torture, Clit torture, Ass and Pussy spanking, Footjobs, Clothespins, Porn control, Bladder control, Edge play, Ice cubes, Drinking control, Forced masturbation, Forced nudity, Mouth gags, Blindfold, Body writings, Writings, Kneeling, pet play, ddlg
Here's a list of my limits. These are pretty set in stone, if something is there I'm very unlikely be willing to try it
LIMITS: Excessive bratting (soft bratting/teasing is ok), scat, vomit, illegal, family&friends, rp/erp, weapons play, blood/needle play, diapers, gore
That's all for the ad! If you are curious and interested in what I can offer or want to know more about me, feel free to reach me in private, I'll quickly reply as soon as I can. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you soon!
