Advice for a new dom

[pulsnat]

I tried the dom role for my girlfriend last week & we both really enjoyed it but i think its safe to say i wasnt a great dom lol so i was looking for some advice on things to do & anything els that i missing or just dont know about lol

 

[ProfessorClamps]

Best advice i could give you is to be Confident, from what i have seen women enjoy it when a man takes charge, so if you are confident in your role you will be on the right track.

 

[JulieKEames]

Establish a safe word or two - something to let you know if you are getting close to her limit (like "Yellow" or "Mustard") and one to let you know you have gone too far (like "Red" or "Ketchup"). Pick words that would normally not be used in play.

I also agree with the previous comment - be assertive and confident. You are the DOM, so act like it. Otherwise do what you like or even what she likes, as long as you are the one that is permitting it.

Most of all - communicate and have fun!