Advice on how to be a good slave

[Lulubell]

I am pretty new to this lifestyle.
Looking for advice on how this be a great salve for my Master!

 

[subzzzero]

I am pretty new to this lifestyle.
Looking for advice on how this be a great salve for my Master!

Good is subjective. If you have a master already he should be setting expectations. None of us can tell you what he wants or likes. All this should have been discussed in the negotiation stage. Likes dislikes limits expectations etc.

What I may like doenst mean it’s what every Dom would like.

Is he high protocol?
Does he have lots of prior experience?
What did you two discuss before entering in a dynamic?
Is he into slave poses?
Formal address ?
Acts of service? Like drink and cigar
Boot blacking

Is this dynamic online or in person ?

Beware of the “doms” here who reach out via pm to “help” you by trying to get you to do things for them.

 

[Naughty nova]

Don't make him ask twice. If it's not one of your hard limits just do it without hesitation. If you hate it let him know thank him lots when being punished

 

[Merlin]

There is actually no simple answer to that, as there is not one way, it is always a matter of being compatible. A "great slave" for one person may be a nighmare for the next.
My advie is to take your time and, the most important part, talk, a lot. Communication is the key to an relationship and that is doubel true about an D/s dnamic

 

[subzzzero]

A "great slave" for one person may be a nighmare for the next.

This is one of the best statements about this subject.

Each dynamic is unique to people involved.

 

[Lulubell]

Good is subjective. If you have a master already he should be setting expectations. None of us can tell you what he wants or likes. All this should have been discussed in the negotiation stage. Likes dislikes limits expectations etc.

What I may like doenst mean it’s what every Dom would like.

Is he high protocol?
Does he have lots of prior experience?
What did you two discuss before entering in a dynamic?
Is he into slave poses?
Formal address ?
Acts of service? Like drink and cigar
Boot blacking

Is this dynamic online or in person ?

Beware of the “doms” here who reach out via pm to “help” you by trying to get you to do things for them.

It is in person! My partner ! We have been dabbling a few years but he now wants to move into a more protocol heavy life

 

[wifehacker]

Communication, communication, communication.

 

[subzzzero]

It is in person! My partner ! We have been dabbling a few years but he now wants to move into a more protocol heavy life

Sounds good. He’s going to be the one to ask then. It’s work as the master side of a high protocol master slave dynamic
My suggestion is when adding on rules do a few to begin. Let those run for week or a few and let it become habit before adding on more.
Starting off with a large list of rules all at once can be hard to achieve on both sides. Remember he’s responsible for enforcing and keeping up with them as well so he will also be busy.

Some high protocols ideas:
Formal address by title (yes master no master)
Slave poses
Leather/ toy care
Presenting toys/items during a session
Speech restriction
Collars
Clothing chose by him daily
Him deciding nail colors
Hair styles

Good discussion starters.

 

[Lulubell]

Thanks so much for all you help