Hello everyone,
For a long time I didn't understand what aroused me and I finally got it even though it's a bit weird.
It seems my sole drive is empathy, I will not get any excitement from someone who is not turned on by me / our play and on the opposite, the more into it the person is, the more aroused I also am. So wether it is a slave or dom or anything else.
I feel it's not that I am happy to see them enjoying themselves, but literally that I share their feelings.
So to explore this I thought about trying out kinky plays since you guys (I think) are really into what you're doing.
Since I don't really care what the roles are and I feel i could enjoy anything that turns on my playmate I'm guessing I should be a switch hence my message here?
This is my very first dip into kinky community so I might be misreading this. Looking to know if some of you are like me / got advices / reads on my situation.
For a long time I didn't understand what aroused me and I finally got it even though it's a bit weird.
It seems my sole drive is empathy, I will not get any excitement from someone who is not turned on by me / our play and on the opposite, the more into it the person is, the more aroused I also am. So wether it is a slave or dom or anything else.
I feel it's not that I am happy to see them enjoying themselves, but literally that I share their feelings.
So to explore this I thought about trying out kinky plays since you guys (I think) are really into what you're doing.
Since I don't really care what the roles are and I feel i could enjoy anything that turns on my playmate I'm guessing I should be a switch hence my message here?
This is my very first dip into kinky community so I might be misreading this. Looking to know if some of you are like me / got advices / reads on my situation.