Anyone with real CNC experience?

[BamaSwitch]

I am curious to any REAL CNC experiences that anyone has had.

I have been in a light blackmail / CNC role for a while and would love to hear how it has worked out for others.

It seems that most want claiming interest wants someone to totally ruin their lives and the dominants that I've dealt with avoid this type of person like the plague. In my particular situation, I wanted to get into better shape. It absolutely worked! LOL

What good experiences have you had?

What bad experiences?

 

[subzzzero]

I am curious to any REAL CNC experiences that anyone has had.

I have been in a light blackmail / CNC role for a while and would love to hear how it has worked out for others.

It seems that most want claiming interest wants someone to totally ruin their lives and the dominants that I've dealt with avoid this type of person like the plague. In my particular situation, I wanted to get into better shape. It absolutely worked! LOL

What good experiences have you had?

What bad experiences?

I’m marking this to return once I find the post where I talked about in person Cnc scenes before. I’ve done a few live ones and pretty sure I put them up on the site before

 

[subzzzero]

Im going to address the cnc part specifically separate from blackmail.
But in the blackmail aspect I’ll say this.
-Once its online it’s online forever
- consider others you might involve who cannot/did not consent. For example your nudes going to family or friends and they aren’t aware nor consenting.
-consent of anyone who might be seeing your public “punishment” of exposure or similar. Again they didn’t consent to your kink play.
-legalities of online exposure are gray area and can get you in trouble exposing a person whether you think you had permission in writing or not.


On to Cnc
A few things to consider:
1. Have an all stop safeword. Pick some random one thats sure to shock both sided to an all stop. Youll want to be able to scream "no" a lot to feed the scene and both sides need to know thats not to be regarded. So pick a real good safeword.
2. Set out a basic plan for the scene so that you know the general idea what to expect but still leaving the top creative freedom to spice it up.
3. If you have any prior sex abuse history or trauma from prior forced sex experiences it is best to start out very very tame and talk and work your way up to a big scene. Irreparable damage mentally emotionally can occur if you rush it. Surprise triggers can ruin a good time and cause lasting effects.
4. Set boundaries just like any other scene.
5. Test out smaller portions or acts of a larger scene the grabbing the manhandling etc just to get the feel so both sides are better in the moment.
6. I used to have a specific code word I would work into the first sentence as I grabbed my sub from behind. I would also show her my watch. This would be a cue to her to know she was safe. But also never see my face and not stop her fear/fantasy.
Based on personal experience the surprise factor really helps this play out. So a prior sub and myself would set times of the day each day that was open for it to happen. She would typically jog a certain wooded trail daily for exercise. It was up to me to pick a day or multiple days. Her not knowing was what kept her heart racing. She would be looking around for me. Sometimes I’d even show up and not follow through. as i came up to her she'd tense thinking it was the day. Id brush my hands lightly over her and continue along making her wait and stew in her own desire. When she was finally not expecting it i would launch the "atttack".
I’d grab her from behind with my arm around her neck. Pulll her off the trail and start manhandling her. Forcing fingers in places and causing pain by hitting pinching poking. She was struggling to escape the whole time. I would eventually bind her hands and blindfold her. There was a back exit I could use to avoid the gen public and not involve any onlookers. Should it happen we end up in eye sight it was an immediate stop to not involve others.
I’d put her in my truck back seat still bound and blindfolded. I’d then bind her feet. Drive her back to her place and take her in the house. She wouldn’t know where we were. I’d then proceed with the cnc scene.
Just make sure you both know the limits of verbal and physical for each. Dirty talking and threats and degrading in process definitely made her more excited. but one wrong call to intelligence weight etc could ruin it all depending on how secure you both are and what level of it all you enjoy.