Bondage as a fetish?

[LadyGrace321]

Anything can be a fetish right? Let's define fetish for all the newbies. A form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object, activity, or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.
Bondage..., there's slavery and servitude, being bound by compulsion, dept bondage, and finally sadomasochistic sexual practices or physically restraining a partner for sexual gratification.

I'm not entirely sure about gratification.. does it mean reaching that big O? Let's define it! Gratification means;
Pleasure.. especially when gained through sexual desire.

Do any of you kinksters have a fetish about being bound?

 

[Gengis]

There is a big big big trust exchange in this play style, with low levels of danger if done corretly, since is one of the , in my oppinion, biggest power exchange in the game.
Also, i think every fetish has a certain level of embarrasment endurance that adds to mood.

Those two points are what make senes to me. Trust and overcoming embarrasement.

I like the... mercyless feeling of being tied, wether its to a bed or a chair. Having your partner tease you or doing whatever your limmits marked, like some low heat wax drops. My my favorite is the old X shape tied to the bed. Wrist and ankles tied to each corner of it, also... for more expossure, securing the knees so legs cant be closed.

As for tying my partner, i find shibari (like a full body swimsuit) extremely hot. The feeling of tying the knots, navigating the body with my , i wish, steady hands.
Oh!!! it also can be wear outside, just like underwear. The embarrasing feeling of knowing you are outside, with a rope carefully tied... it is something!!!

And finally as for tying bodyparts, aside from limbs, boobs, nipples, clit, cock and balls are the protagonists.

CAREFULL TYING JOINTS! could lead to injury.
Also, either u make all knots fast release or u have a surgical scisors (or round pointed that wont hurt ur partner) to cut fast through ropes if needed

For newbies, u can play the scene of being tied but not really or with a really loose knot that allows you to scape fast if u feel something wrong.
Instead of ropes u can use bed sheets or shoelaces for "small things"


As for the big O... i dont know if any1 will get to it by only being in bondage, not me, but the trust and embarrasement, added to the forced restraint, certainly does help.