Can i ask the mistresses and dominant women a quick question?

[Hanson]

Hello, new here. I am very interested in female domination.
I wanted to ask the mistresses and dominant women a question if thats alright.
Do you find in appealing to look at men as sex objects and playthings without any recourse to emotion or consideration for him?
Please excuse me if...if this question is irrelevant but i would humbly ask that its not met with apathy.
Im just trying to understand how a female dominator looks at the man she dominates.
Thankyou for any replys, Jack.

 

[LadyLomion]

There is no set reply, in the same way there is no answer to how a vanilla wife regards her vanilla husband, there are hundreds of possible answers.

Until recently I have only really dominated men I was in a full relationship with, so my feelings for and thoughts of my subject were keyed in to a bigger picture.

My current partner is my dominant,(TensionRoom101 on here) but I do dominate other men and women who have submitted to me at the fetish and bdsm clubs I attend here in the north east of England (Tension being the obvious one) and there the feelings are different. I'm not a pro Domme, and any that have submitted to me are people I know from our thriving scene, so there are always emotions and feelings there, as these people are my friends.

I know of Dommes who do it as a business and are naturally detached from their subs. I know of proDommes who specialise in acting cold and nasty in session even though they're amazingly loving ladies. I know of vanilla girls who are bitches to their boyfriends, and evil Dommes who are the most thoughtful people you'll ever meet.

As I say, there is no answer.

Lis x

 

[Hanson]

cool

Ok, thanks for hazarding an answer Liz.
Nothing is ever uncomplicated where life and women are concerned even though this is this case (that circumstances differ) do men who fit into a submissive role ever fit into a role where they are perhaps seen as sex objects and playthings by the women that dominate them (which is what im interested in)? Does this dynamic exist?
Or am i perhaps being to simplistic about female domination in hoping for this? Thankyou for any further replys

 

[LadyLomion]

It's Lis.

What you crave does exist, for sure, but in my experience only in a very small percentage of cases. For every one case of a dominant female who uses a submissive male only as a regular sex object, there's a dozen others who get their sexual kicks from a stronger alpha male, relegating the sub to a sissy maid, cuckold or other such role. In fact, in cuckoldry it is usually the bull that is the sex object, the hired cock, the tool of her pleasure. The sub fulfils a more gentle role.

I know dommes who have partners who they may use in that way as part of a bigger D/s (or even vanilla) picture but I think now that the idea of a fuck buddy has less stigma attached to it we ladies are even less likely to go down the path you offer.

Lis x

 

[Tatjana]

It varies from who I have as submissive.
Sure, I can look at them as nothing but a piece of meat sometimes, but I prefer to have a knowledge of their personality.

 

[mistresslilly43]

ownership

i find that most of my slaves are here for my pleasure first ,but the longer i spend with then personality comes into it

 

[DEWRO]

Application

I will do every thikg what u say.i want 2be your slave