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Can someone plesse tell how to choke her perfectly and safely and what variations could i try
 

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The short answer is. There is not a safe way.

Long answer. Choking by actually squeezing the neck is dangerous. You can collapse or perm damage the trachea (windpipe)

If your partner wants to feel the pressure then do it just for the firm grip feel not for the sake of actually choking. Or whats safer is to have hand around neck but use your thumb and index finger to press up on the bottom of thier jaw bone. This restricts blood flow and feels like the blackout choking effect but no risk of damaging the trach.

If you’re seeking purely breath play. Use your hand to cover her mouth and pinch her nose shut. Then you can easily release and she can get a breath as needed.

Overall. This is all going to fall under RACK vs SSC. If you are not aware of these terms it is worth a look up for better understanding.
 

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Yeah... that is one of the No-no for me, Keep things can can lead you to hospital or jail or grave away or do a very slight hint of it
@subzzzero mentioned the trachea breakage, but im more concerned of posbile brain damage, if u press the carotid artery long enough she'll blackout, and if done wrong (and it can go wrong very easy very fast) the bloodflow loss could affect the brain and possible lead to death.

I can suggest wearing a covid mask FP2, as tighter as possible to restric breath but not completley, its softer than what subzzzero suggested, but safer too.

Now im curious about it, so if u like, let us know what u did and how u both enjoyed it. :D
 
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The short answer is. There is not a safe way.

Long answer. Choking by actually squeezing the neck is dangerous. You can collapse or perm damage the trachea (windpipe)

If your partner wants to feel the pressure then do it just for the firm grip feel not for the sake of actually choking. Or whats safer is to have hand around neck but use your thumb and index finger to press up on the bottom of thier jaw bone. This restricts blood flow and feels like the blackout choking effect but no risk of damaging the trach.

If you’re seeking purely breath play. Use your hand to cover her mouth and pinch her nose shut. Then you can easily release and she can get a breath as needed.

Overall. This is all going to fall under RACK vs SSC. If you are not aware of these terms it is worth a look up for better understanding.
I read your replies and it is quite scary...but what about what we saw in videos where man while fucking chokes the girl...if its that much risky then how do they do it
 

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I whould asssume they are proffesionals and they are acting or if its real they know what they doing, also they know the risks.

You should be prepared for when things go wrong and... ressearching before doing it is the best method.

I recall, doing a strange thing when i was a teenager, we did id cause it was fun and i immediatly knew it wasnt my thing, so i didnt do it, but helmp the rest not to fall and waking them up. WE KNEW NOTHING.... literally, probably 16 o 17 years old. It was like that... fast squats hyperventilating, reaching the hardest bpm, then a friend back choke you, as i said in my post blocking the carotid arterias, just like in MMA or self defense videos.
Obviously we fainted. A friend of mine didnt get caught by the rest and hit his head, nothing serious just a bump cause we did it on the coach.
If hard punding, hi heart beat. and blocking blood flow rings a bell to you... you know what will hapend if u choke her while fucking reall hard.

And the faint comes from brain getting low flow and it decides u need to rest to recover it again.
 
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I whould asssume they are proffesionals and they are acting or if its real they know what they doing, also they know the risks.

You should be prepared for when things go wrong and... ressearching before doing it is the best method.

I recall, doing a strange thing when i was a teenager, we did id cause it was fun and i immediatly knew it wasnt my thing, so i didnt do it, but helmp the rest not to fall and waking them up. WE KNEW NOTHING.... literally, probably 16 o 17 years old. It was like that... fast squats hyperventilating, reaching the hardest bpm, then a friend back choke you, as i said in my post blocking the carotid arterias, just like in MMA or self defense videos.
Obviously we fainted. A friend of mine didnt get caught by the rest and hit his head, nothing serious just a bump cause we did it on the coach.
If hard punding, hi heart beat. and blocking blood flow rings a bell to you... you know what will hapend if u choke her while fucking reall hard.

And the faint comes from brain getting low flow and it decides u need to rest to recover it again.
Yup....but ive also seen many leaked videos where they choke...i wanna know how its done
 

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In taht i cannot help, i lack experience further of what i have already said xD.

Keep the research before doing anything, please
 
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You can grab and squeeze the throat as long as you’re not excessive with it. The porn stars you’re seeing are acting. I could tense my hand up hard and not break an egg in it but it would look like I’m really squeezing it. Replace egg with lady throat and she is overreacting choking and gagging and acting like I’m the worst ever. Just like those exaggerated screaming yelling orgasms oh oh oh oh. Yep acting. Yes some people have vocal sex but porn is fantasy. It’s like fake wrestling. Make what sells.

Are there legit choking vids where the lady is choked ? Sure. Does it make it correct or safe? No. they’re just skirting the edge of lucky and fun vs trip to the ER. Risk is everyone’s responsibility. Just like cutting, needles, heavy impact. It’s all risky. You two just have to determine to what level.
 
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You can grab and squeeze the throat as long as you’re not excessive with it. The porn stars you’re seeing are acting. I could tense my hand up hard and not break an egg in it but it would look like I’m really squeezing it. Replace egg with lady throat and she is overreacting choking and gagging and acting like I’m the worst ever. Just like those exaggerated screaming yelling orgasms oh oh oh oh. Yep acting. Yes some people have vocal sex but porn is fantasy. It’s like fake wrestling. Make what sells.

Are there legit choking vids where the lady is choked ? Sure. Does it make it correct or safe? No. they’re just skirting the edge of lucky and fun vs trip to the ER. Risk is everyone’s responsibility. Just like cutting, needles, heavy impact. It’s all risky. You two just have to determine to what level.
Yup that makes it very clear....thanks a lot
 

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