Compairing Male Vs. Female domination

[Blackhand]

So it seems that there a lot of creative ways to torture/pleasure a woman. With some of the stuff I've seen I find myself thinking 'wow, that looks like fun, there has got to be a way for me to try that'. My ex couldn't find it in her to be a dom so I never got that experience and from what femdom I've seen online it looks like it's completely different from the experience than what I see female slaves go through. Now I know it can't be physically exactly the same but like a mirrored feeling or something.

Anyway main question does anyone feel the same way at all, or if you have noticed this any ways you can suggest to find that similar experience?

 

[sarahamber]

ahahahah maybe it's just me, but i don't get what you're asking?

 

[garrasdevil]

ahahahah maybe it's just me, but i don't get what you're asking?

I think he is asking if male and female subs each like a different category of things?

 

[Blackhand]

Ok I'll try and clear it up, so just from what I've seen women doming a male sub the women are really aggressive, in comparison male doms appear to vary in there attitudes. Does anyone else see that trend?

I see it more with physical differences, 100 ways to play with a woman but it's like every time a guy is dominated they're going to be taking a strap on. So again, anyone see the same thing?

 

[Dirt]

No, not at all. There are all kinds of different ways to dominate somebody/be dominated by somebody. I don't think it depends on the person's sex, but rather their personality and fetishes.

I'm very much into femdom for example, but I don't care about strap-ons in the slightest.

 

[Memories for Life]

So it seems that there a lot of creative ways to torture/pleasure a woman. With some of the stuff I've seen I find myself thinking 'wow, that looks like fun, there has got to be a way for me to try that'. My ex couldn't find it in her to be a dom so I never got that experience and from what femdom I've seen online it looks like it's completely different from the experience than what I see female slaves go through. Now I know it can't be physically exactly the same but like a mirrored feeling or something.

Anyway main question does anyone feel the same way at all, or if you have noticed this any ways you can suggest to find that similar experience?

Maybe it might help if you gave a specific "act" which was written to dominate a female slave yet you find it "fun" to try yourself. It would help also if you clarify whether you wish your dominant to be Mistress or Master.

 

[smlldckbnd]

I think part of what he's getting at, maybe, is that when dominating a woman, you have more options. For example, woman you can tie up their breasts and play/torture them in many ways, including the nipples. Where as, a guy really can't have his tits tied up. His nipples can be tortured/played with but I don't see a way to go beyond that... could be my inexperience though.
Then there is pussy play, insertions, clitoral play/torture, anal play/torture, etc... where you can stimulate in many different ways vs a guy that can have anal, cock, balls play/torture.
Beyond that, it seems that, to me, domming a woman can be both sensual and a bit of painful, while domming a guy, it seems that it's more torture than anything else.
I'm not experienced in giving or receiving beyond some self play, and so I'm probably just babbling...

 

[david789]

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[DomDaddy]

There are as many styles of Dominance as there are Dominants, though there are broad categories, and a submissive will be attracted to a Dominant who has a style compatible with their desires.

While this is not true in every case, and it may not be true in even the majority, the perception is that male subs desire a more aggressive style of play. In my own experience I would say it's true about 50% of the time. It is rarer to find a female who wishes the same levels of aggression, yet again they do exist, and FemDommes with female subs can tend to be less so.

So perhaps it isn't the style of Dominance that's the question, but the preference, or perceived preference of male subs over females. Whatever way it works, there are enough different styles of we freaks to keep the many different types of you freaks happy, so all is good.

 

[depravedChattel]

I kind of agree with people who said that male slaves tend to be tortured, whereas with female slaves sensuality and playfullness is also sometimes there.
I think that's really only true in porn though. I'm sure in real life male slaves have as much variety as females do.

A big difference, I think, is the degradation or humiliation aspect. A female slave will usually be made to feel like a slut, a male slave will be emasculated. There's a different feeling there. What do you all think?

 

[Entiger]

There are actually pretty even possibilities, but there are some differences that are pretty specific.

Femdom has:
Ruined orgasm
Legs,feet and shoe worship
Forced bi
Sissyfication

And Male dom - fem subs has
Play-rape
manhandling
Gangbang

But most of these are pretty specific as i said, not totally.