What is it about FEMDOM that gets the Domme horny? Is it the power? The control? Is it the fact that the sub is adoring you? I'm a male switch and from my experience; it is more than the sexual act itself.
AS a switch I see both sides of the lifestyle but always from a male perspective. As a male sub - I am turned on by the excitement of doing things that I might otherwise shy away from. When a mistress makes me do risky exposures in public places, be naked in a public place, hold my pee for long periods, do household chores etc... The horniness comes from a sense of liberation and a sense of excitement .. freedom to do the forbidden... I get the same sense of enjoyment from my "other" job as a naked handyman... It's risk, liberation and abandoning control. Punishments, spankings, cuckolding and humiliation, for me - add to the sense of "freedom"... of being forced to relinquish all control to satisfy someone else's desires.
When I'm a Dom' it's very different. I get horny from the notion that this sub's body is mine. It is mine for sexual pleasure - to use as I wish - to fulfill dirty fantasies. The more selfless the sub acts, the hornier I become and yet personally, I am not excited by the notion of forcing myself on the slave... it must be true, consensual submission.
So, Dommes, what is it about the Domme "lifestyle" that makes you horny?
In addition to your replies, feel free to send me a message with your most "secret tips" on what I should do to be a good sub to you - to make you wetter than ever.
AS a switch I see both sides of the lifestyle but always from a male perspective. As a male sub - I am turned on by the excitement of doing things that I might otherwise shy away from. When a mistress makes me do risky exposures in public places, be naked in a public place, hold my pee for long periods, do household chores etc... The horniness comes from a sense of liberation and a sense of excitement .. freedom to do the forbidden... I get the same sense of enjoyment from my "other" job as a naked handyman... It's risk, liberation and abandoning control. Punishments, spankings, cuckolding and humiliation, for me - add to the sense of "freedom"... of being forced to relinquish all control to satisfy someone else's desires.
When I'm a Dom' it's very different. I get horny from the notion that this sub's body is mine. It is mine for sexual pleasure - to use as I wish - to fulfill dirty fantasies. The more selfless the sub acts, the hornier I become and yet personally, I am not excited by the notion of forcing myself on the slave... it must be true, consensual submission.
So, Dommes, what is it about the Domme "lifestyle" that makes you horny?
In addition to your replies, feel free to send me a message with your most "secret tips" on what I should do to be a good sub to you - to make you wetter than ever.
