Masturbate and edge for twenty minutes, have candles ready. After twenty minutes of edging, get yourself to climax, but at the very last moment drop candle wax on your dick and balls, dick head first, then the rest to cover everything.
Record a video if you can.
Dont take too much pleasure in it.
Also if you can, it is even better if someone tie you uo and manage the edging and the ruining of the orgasm.
Cheers
M