So. This is my first time publically acknowledging that I have a kink. I am a bit scared about announcing this but I need to get this out there somehow.
Growing up, I've realized I need spice with sex and I have been without it for some time. I just feel unfulfilled after sex and I don't think my current boyfriend will be willing to help me with this. This is NOT a solicitation. I don't need a hundred private messages telling me they can do better if i give them a chance.
What I need is to figure out what my kinks are and how to explore them more fully. I enjoy dominating (but don't really know how to do it well) and being submissive (as long as the other person is in control). I like being tied down and struggling against restraints but I also want to tie someone else up and do whatever I want with them, even if they struggle. I am a masochist as well.
The only thing is that I haven't been able to try any of these things very often and when I do, it is just barely enough to be qualified as some BDSM. Maybe that is too generous. The point is that I need to grow into my kinks as a person.
Any advice on what it sounds like I'm into would be appreciated. This is my first time stepping into the dom/sub scene but I'd like to keep exploring.
Growing up, I've realized I need spice with sex and I have been without it for some time. I just feel unfulfilled after sex and I don't think my current boyfriend will be willing to help me with this. This is NOT a solicitation. I don't need a hundred private messages telling me they can do better if i give them a chance.
What I need is to figure out what my kinks are and how to explore them more fully. I enjoy dominating (but don't really know how to do it well) and being submissive (as long as the other person is in control). I like being tied down and struggling against restraints but I also want to tie someone else up and do whatever I want with them, even if they struggle. I am a masochist as well.
The only thing is that I haven't been able to try any of these things very often and when I do, it is just barely enough to be qualified as some BDSM. Maybe that is too generous. The point is that I need to grow into my kinks as a person.
Any advice on what it sounds like I'm into would be appreciated. This is my first time stepping into the dom/sub scene but I'd like to keep exploring.
