How did you.....?

[LadyM]

There was a time when men had to pursue their Femdom interests through magazines and adult newspapers, delivered discreetly in plain brown paper wrappings.

Now, all sorts of Femdom information is all over the internet, with much of it based in porn, not real life or lifestyle Femdom. This first exposure influences the male's approach and expectations.

So....

This question is for the submissive males on this board;

What sparked your interest in Femdom?

 

[BedMax]

OK, I'll give you an answer and this will be my first post here ever

For myself, it's quite simple. I realized I'm in femdom when I was really young boy. I was about 10-12 years old, reading some adventure books about indians and so. Every time when in the story was somebody tortured or punished, I imaginated it's me and the torturer is a woman. At that time the internet didn't exist and I had no reach to other educational materials, thus it just came from me without any influence.
Much later I realized that this is called Femdom and I'm just one of many...

 

[miles piper]

As a young kid playing tie up games with female friends.....I always was the one tied up lol, and it all kinda escalated from there I guess.

 

[kinkyjez]

for me...

as a kid i had fantasies about my brother and sister tying me up and abusing me, then as I grew up it became real when i found out that other people liked it too.

 

[onemoretime]

I have a little sister, and like any girl growing up, she liked to play dressup. so she would frequently try and get me to play with her. i finally agreed after a while under the condition that she not tell our parents.

she brought out her dresses and let me pick what i wanted to try on. i instantly fell in love with crossdressing, I REALLY wanted to wear her swimsuits, but i didnt want to ask if i could, so i started pushing her more toward picking things for me to try on instead, in hopes that she would bring it to me. eventually we both realized that she liked making me try things on, and i liked being told what to try on, and it turned into her demanding that i wear stuff whenever our parents left.

obviously as a little kid, that was all in good fun, but as you grow up that sort of thing starts to be inappropriate. so off to the internet i went.

 

[CraxySaadhu]

Similar story

As a child I was watching a film. And the lady was tied up and tortured... And that was a turn-on. I started to imagine being tied up and started fantasizing since I was about 9 or 10.

I just realized femdom obsession is started amongst all since a very very early age! Nice to read I wasn't the only 9 yr old obsessed with it!

 

[smlldckbnd]

for me, it was probably way back when Yahoo still had chatrooms that were made for "truth or dare" and I used to hang out in them looking for dares. At the same time I started looking online and found sites like GetDare and then this one and also videos and picture sites with BDSM related activities.
Through the yahoo chatrooms I met a few women that liked to control guys and I would do things for them. I found that I was enjoying being at their command and looked for other outlets.
Eventually I found out more and realized I was more a submissive leaning towards a switch and enjoyed it.
I met a friend of a friend and went to a lifestyle club during an open house where they had all kinds of vendors selling toy and clothing. I didn't buy anything then, still to new and nervous, not to mention ran into a lot of people I know from other activities (who knew some activities had similar interested people in them... lol)
Anyway, since then I've been really interested, but haven't done anything more than dares, and self-induced things like CBT.

 

[neejoh]

I think it started when I was about 17. Being uninterested in the standard 'fake' porn I was looking for other stuff and stumbled upon a video of a boy being dominated by a handsome woman. Mostly bondage and teasing, but also whipping. I got turned on and pictured myself as the boy, and that kinda let to this fantasy.

After that I quickly found out about women being the submissves in a more kinky environment, which led me to being switch.

Still haven't managed to try both of these fantasies out in real life.

 

[lucky7z]

In middle school i was self conscious about the size of my penis, since i was experiencing locker room for the first time. Since at that age u cant get a pump or pillz... i went with what one probably less than reliable online source said to do... tie and hang a weight from your cock for a little while each day. First time trying it, I dropped the 5lb weight while i was finishing tying the string, it dropped from chest level to inches above the floor and the string went taut. It hurt so bad, I panicked and untied myself and almost immediately had an erection... Since I always had the house to myself for 2-3 hours after school before parents arrived... I started experimenting with cbt almost daily and didnt discover the lifestyle that it was a more widespread fetish until i was 18.

 

[LadyM]

Remove your age numbers...

When asking this question, I assumed that responses would not post age numbers under 21. You can say your interests started while you were younger than you are right now, but please remove anything indicating you were under 18.

 

[Hunterman36]

I am not really sure. I thought the idea of being dominated was always hot. I likewise thought being dominated by a girl was hot. So naturally I came to the belief that femdom was hot.

 

[Slaveboy90]

I know this thread is old but I'll bump it and also make my first post on here...

I believe it started when I was young and became curious about sex. I became curious about women and especially older ones. By hanging in various chat rooms online, I found out that I am not alone and there are women who enjoy people like me. It certainly caught my interest and I simply started finding out more about it.

Here I am, a few years later and I know a lot more than I did back then but I am still eager to learn more and gain more experience.

 

[Mascot1920]

My dad was into it and as a very young boy i was given glimpses into the world of femdom >.> Wasnt appropriate but never the less, here i am ^^ I remember being into female domination before i knew what it was...