How do you find a partner that is into BDSM in real life?

[KInky.switch]

Hello, i have a strange question for you, if anyone wanna take a chat about that. How do you find a partner that is interested in same kink as you are? Im not sure if it is just me but i had a chance to find parter once that was into same stuff that i was, but unfortunately thinks didn't work out between us. And after that relationship i struggle to find someone in my life with same interest's.

 

[subzzzero]

Hello, i have a strange question for you, if anyone wanna take a chat about that. How do you find a partner that is interested in same kink as you are? Im not sure if it is just me but i had a chance to find parter once that was into same stuff that i was, but unfortunately thinks didn't work out between us. And after that relationship i struggle to find someone in my life with same interest's.

Online groups centered around your locality. Or meets and munches with your local community.

 

[Gengis]

if i were looking for a kinky IRL couple... maybe looking for bdsm clubs? im sure ur not the only one and atleast people u dont have to swim around vanillity. Although... for me going to those clubs alone chould be one of the most embarrassing things i could do, but... hey, facing embarrasement its part of the game, isnt it?

Online groups as subzero said whould be the easiest way but, if u are looking for a dom, actually exposing you to the clubs could be appealing. It shows bravery, as for me: my dom side likes brave people.
its like: huh!! shes brave, i wonder how much.

AS for what Andyswitch proposed, i dont know... getting to know some1 to the point where u can discuss kinks sounds like a tedious job. Maybe u start liking some1 that is not into sm and it leads you to a realtionship that u didnt look for.

 

[KInky.switch]

if i were looking for a kinky IRL couple... maybe looking for bdsm clubs? im sure ur not the only one and atleast people u dont have to swim around vanillity. Although... for me going to those clubs alone chould be one of the most embarrassing things i could do, but... hey, facing embarrasement its part of the game, isnt it?

Online groups as subzero said whould be the easiest way but, if u are looking for a dom, actually exposing you to the clubs could be appealing. It shows bravery, as for me: my dom side likes brave people.
its like: huh!! shes brave, i wonder how much.

AS for what Andyswitch proposed, i dont know... getting to know some1 to the point where u can discuss kinks sounds like a tedious job. Maybe u start liking some1 that is not into sm and it leads you to a realtionship that u didnt look for.

You are right going to a club sound's interesting and stressfill at the same time I might give it a shot

 

[LadyGrace321]

... go away "Goddess" this is a discussion.