When both sides Of the slash are new and inexperienced it’s a potentially dangerous situation for both involved. I would really recommend finding a mentor of similar role and gender to help you. Or possibly attend some dungeon 101 nights if you have any locally. Not saying you can’t learn together but this isn’t best done by trial and error when the error could be so costly.
sorry had to edit after going back through your prior posts.
Yet you were here on kinktalk as a “master” back in 2016 (you were 15?) Then a slave. And really this all around is super sketchy with all the age and stuff. Use caution for anyone thinking of answering this one.