My lover recently confided in me that he derives excitement from engaging in self-destructive behaviour resulting in the feeling of failure and, ultimately, intense depression. He admitted that the idea of losing control, with the threat of wrecking his life, makes him feel nostalgic and true to himself. I'd like to simulate such scenarios in play, so he can get release, but I'm unsure of how to go about it. The closest I can come up with is the 'threat' of blackmail and/or financial domination, as those contain most of the key elements mentioned above.
Not to worry, he's in caring hands. Be creative! He obviously wants something soul-shattering.
Not to worry, he's in caring hands. Be creative! He obviously wants something soul-shattering.
