Is it fine to just keep it to pillow talk?

[Neofission]

I feel like maybe there's a stigma for not performing properly in x or y kink rather I haven't had a chance to explore it at all cuz there's a stigma to not fitting to manbox in general but for me while I don't actually wanna wear dresses or makeup it's kinda sexy the thought of my partner teasing it as part of like femdom pillow talk, maybe she likes teasing about it but not actually making me do it for real cuz I'm pretty comfortable with my body just the tease sounds sexy.

Am I doomed? Just asking out of curiosity sorry new to the site.

 

[Youwillcallmesir.]

Thats probably quite a good way to introduce that sort of thing into your play. But also talking to your other half about it is equally important, and you never know she might love the idea. But I would approach it carefully and not rush into anything. Ask her perhaps to take a pair of undies from her drawer and let her use them as a threat. Dont think your doomed, you just need to get your thoughts out there without worrying about the what ifs.