is it me or you are trolled?

[andrei]

Funny thing
Everytime I decided to respond to a female mistress she got banned.
Searching for reasons I noticed the banned person was actually a male. (Hail to the admins!)

Does it sound familiar when you meet someone and he/she is unable to prove the identity? Maybe cam not working, etc.

This forum should gather people over 18, people older than the getdare users. Doesn't it mean that we are a bit smarter than that?

We can decide if our mistress is actually a fake. I can see that, what about you?

 

[CassAhhDee]

I see lots of scammers around here. Always remember the phrase, "may the buyer beware." Confirm what you can, hold your money close and always trust your gut.

 

[secretspanker]

Misbhavn also appears to have been male all along-so yes!i to have been trolled!'Caveat Emptor' indeed!

 

[andrei]

Eh I saw long time on a website (I don't remember where). People could ask to be verified. It's not like everyone should be checked, there are a lot of members here.

Just a suggestion for admins, if it can be possible somehow: whoever wants to be verified has a way to send a photo with his name written (this can be faked easily of course = asiandareslut) or ask for a webcam check, just subscribe to a queue and in the end he receives a seal in the profile that confirms the user identity (also the user gender and age should be locked).

Anyone can put a photo in their own album but some may not want to post their own photos to public albums.

Meanwhile everyone ask for a way of verification from the ones you are talking to, even from your future mistress/master. Trust builds a relationship, even a d/s one.

 

[andrei]

ok I started to have fun noticing all my dialogues with new people go the same (so I started trolling myself. A Lot of fun on collarme lately but also noticed some people with similar robotic answers subscribed here).

So tutorial to avoid your future fake mistress:

- your future mistress says "hi, slave!" first in a skype chat as long as you stated you are just a curious sub via messages.
- your future mistress asks about "who are you?" again, and "what are your likes" while they are already stated in your signature and you already mentioned your name.
- your future mistress asks about your limits and agrees everything while in her signature your limits are opposite to her wishes
- your future mistress doesn't show her webcam or any proof until you accept her contract bla bla. A future online slave would love to know a bit about his/her mistress first. Before their agreement a slave has all the time in the world to choose another mistress.
- your future mistress asks you at the beginning to obtain a silver/golden membership on a specific website. The website she offers you has refferal links in the end and if you pay for any membership this way, the mistress gets some money and eventually avoids you in the near future and seek another fish to fry. So best advice: never spend money to pay an online mistress. Better spend money to pay a future slave (like just buy someone from cam4 with the condition to offer as a slave to your future mistress. Cam4 people are cheap sometimes).

Please add more to this tutorial from your experience. I am sure you had your fun too.

 

[shadowice0823]

i ask likes and limits sometimes just cause im feeling too lazy to look up normally i do remember them all off the top of my head.

 

[Dom6BDSM]

Most of the fakes are easy to spot.

On getdare the most easy way to spot it is if they suddenly change age in messages.

Or if someone described themselves as a young girl.

 

[SlaveBondage]

The unfortunate truth is very numerous males are looking for females who are few and far between. There are some females in here who are pro dommes who want all your cash or others who are not actually female. There are a few genuine female dommes but chances are they've chosen someone ahead of you.

Good luck in finding what you want on here, I'm still waiting to find that special mistress/master that accepts my limits x

 

[CassAhhDee]

Slavebondage speaks the truth. For the very few real non pros floating around most have probably been snapped up. The thing about the mistress/slave relationship is that it is the same as any relationship. For it to really work there has to be some mutual connection.