Is that really a kink?

[Doctor Pervert]

Welcome to what will (hopefully) become an occasional series discussing some of the weirder or more extreme kinks.

Important note! I want to be clear here this is not a place to kink shame which is never cool, no, this is a place to celebrate some of the more obscure and lesser known kinks. If these things are what you find fascinating, indulge in yourself or simply fantasize about we want you to know you're not alone and there are loads of others just like you out there.

To kick off we're going to look at something that while also a medical condition, is indeed a bona fide kink, and that is a prolapsed uterus.
(Caution, photos included if you scroll down)

What the? You're probably thinking, well in fact this is the kink known as uterophilia which is arousal caused by the exposed or prolapsed uterus.
Really, it's a thing.
Now it turns out there are quite a few proponents of this kink online and they enjoy a large and enthusiastic following. If you're intrigued by this you can go look for "Dirty Garden Girl" or "RaisaWetx" to find some mind boggling examples. I've included two at the end of this story, so if you're curious scroll down and take a look.

You might be wondering what exactly is going on here and can I do this myself? Well maybe not the second bit, but who knows.
A prolapse is defined as : the falling down or slipping of a body part from its usual position or relations. In this case the uterus is no longer supported by the pelvic floor muscles and ligaments and so gravity takes over and it can slide down the vagina. In extreme cases such as those shown below it actually protrudes from the body. In many women a uterine prolapse is uncomfortable, unpleasant and even painful and often requires medical attention. Some however embrace their prolapse and enjoy the sensations, actively pushing the prolapse further outwards as part of the kinky fun.

The upshot is this is a kink that requires you already have a prolapse, it's not something you can just decide to have a go at. If however you do already have a prolapsed uterus and it isn't causing you pain maybe this is kink you could explore? This certainly is not a very common kink but if it's something you're into then please feel free to jump in with any comments you may have. Maybe it's something you'd seen or heard about but thought was faked or do you have some other opinion about it?
This is what we do here at Kink Talk, we talk about kinks!

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Time for another installment of "Is that really a kink?", this time looking at extreme semen fetishes such as bukkake and gokkun.
These fall under various descriptors, salirophilia, which is a paraphilia that enjoys messing up the appearance of someone else as well as hygrophilia which is an attraction to bodily fluids such as semen.

In the bdsm context ejaculating onto your submissive is often seen as a degrading or humiliating type of behavior, with bukkake being an extreme version where many men ejaculate onto one woman. There is a lot of this kind of porn around and plenty of examples with participant numbers ranging from less than 10 to 100 or even more.



The word itself is Japanese and this is where the majority of this kind of porn comes from, as does the closely related gokkun.
Gokkun instead of simply splashing the semen around collects it to be consumed by the lone female, sometimes this can amount to a lot to drink.



There are numerous variations on these themes, including cumming in eyes, hair or armpits, using funnels and speculums, all the way to covering the whole body and allowing it to dry.

Really quite a diverse and intriguing kink. Is this something you like, have done or want to do? Tell us about it and lets share our knowledge of kink!

 

[hcfist]

Yes. Both are kinks. Even not so rare. I see much content this type. even more than mine kinks.

 

[Sir's Bunny]

The bukkake and gokkun are something I've always been attracted to receiving. I just didn't know the terms until recently/reading the little blurb about them. Interesting and intriguing indeed!

Would eating food that has cum on it be considered with this or is it something else?

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Would eating food that has cum on it be considered with this or is it something else?

Yes, gokkun does often cover this as well. Really it's a bit of a catchall term for all those kind of more unusual cum play.

 

[jamiexoxo]

The bukkake and gokkun are something I've always been attracted to receiving. I just didn't know the terms until recently/reading the little blurb about them. Interesting and intriguing indeed!

Would eating food that has cum on it be considered with this or is it something else?

I think yes!! it could be any delivery really, although isn't "cum eating a thing" ?

 

[Emalice9]

Can’t wait to read more of these

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Mummification.
No, not the Egyptian ones that chase you out of pyramids, it's a kink!

Yes indeed, mummification, encasement fetish, total enclosure fetish, all similar kinds of ways to get kinky by wrapping a body either fully or mostly in some type of tight covering.
Some may be familiar with the iconic gimp suits, tight fitting rubber all over including the head. There is some crossover here with rubber fetishists who simply like tight fitting rubber clothing but what makes this particular style of fetish different is it's also a kind of bondage.

Using anything from cling wrap film, to duct tape, and yes even bandages you can achieve a level of restrictive bondage not possible In other ways. Commonly done from feet to neck but also often including the head it renders the victim totally helpless with no possibility of escape.



I should point out that if you wanted to try something like the photo above to take precautions. Ripping all that tape off eventually is a hell of a business, a couple of wraps first with cling film will make the removal much less painful...

It can also be used to great effect to create an inescapable stimulation situation. Wrapping in a wand vibe means no chance of evading it's never ending stimulation.



Another variation is using a vacuum form table or bag, this obviously requires a level of expertise and equipment you're not likely to just have lying around. The effect is super tight and looks visually amazing, it's also very quick release with one hole allowing escape.



Is this something you're curious about, maybe even tried it? Let us know your thoughts and what you think of this latest "is that really a kink?"

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Forniphilia is a kink where a (usually) submissive person is transformed into or made part of your furniture.

I know right?

Yeah it's a real thing, in fact it's quite a popular thing. Most often it will involve either some form of tight bondage or holding a difficult or uncomfortable pose. One of the most common is probably the footstool position, simply on your hands and knees your back forms the stool for your masters feet. Coffee tables are another use for this kind of posing, sometimes inverted so you are laying on your back and supporting the table top with hands and knees.





There are lots of other arrangements possible of course, performing service as a lamp stand or candelabra is another popular choice.


This is a rather cute example converting what I think is an Ikea Billy bookcase into a lovely side attraction.

At the more extreme end of this are the full encasement style arrangements where the subject is fully wrapped to keep them in the desired pose.



Probably the most well proponents of this style would be the House of Gord who've produced some amazing videos and images on this exact theme.
Let us know what you think, is this something you can see yourself doing? Any other thoughts or comments?

 

[Merlin]

In my experience there is nothing that is not somebody's kink ... as long as all is with consent it is a kink

 

[AmyFlowerGirl]

Nobody should judge anyones kinks. After all we are all perverts here ( in a good way)

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Nobody should judge anyones kinks. After all we are all perverts here ( in a good way)

We are indeed! Personally I'm all for reclaiming "perverts" as our own badge of honor.
Kinksters just sounds a little too pretentious, lol...

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Today I've got something a bit different, and it's one I've got actual experience with. Cunt kicking, often called cunt busting I guess in reference to the much more common male equivalent, ball busting.

Why am I singling this out as a kink, surely it's just part of S&M or something like that? Well yes and no. For sure it's a painful thing and can be used by sadists on their sub/masochist victims but more specifically what I want to look at here is when it's two (or more) females playing this game against each other.

First what is it we're really talking about here? Well the two combatants stand facing each other and take turns (or a series of turns) to have free access to kick the opponent between her legs. A good hit can crush the clit of the victim against her pubic bone and ZING, instant pain! A bad hit or a miss simply catches the upper thigh etc and does little. It's actually a lot harder to stand still and not protect yourself than you might imagine but that's all part of the game, and what made this much more interesting to me.



As I mentioned I've actually had some experiences with this first hand on a number of occasions when I've had a couple of subs who liked playing together and were willing to indulge me with this idea. And that's when I discovered this was a bit more of an underground thing than I imagined.
Let me explain.
I first saw a very crude example of this online in a short video, two girls competing against each other, actually in that clip they were also slapping each other tits as well as kicking but that's beside the point. At that time I had, as mentioned two subs who liked playing in the same session with me. A number of times I had set up competitions, various tasks where the winner would become the favorite for the day and the loser had to serve both of us.
I decided to test this out with them and this is when I discovered the much more widespread practice of this when one of them piped up with "oh we used to do this on camp". Say what now?

Yes that's right, apparently this young lady and her classmates used to play this game, albeit wearing underwear in the dorms on camp!!! For some time afterwards I asked around to all the kinky gals I knew to see if anyone else had played this game and sure enough there were several that had had similar experiences.
Who knew?

One of the things that really grabbed me about this is how vicious they can get towards each other as the contest progresses while still often laughing most of the time. As a combat sport it gets very personal! Bruising is common as is the odd cut or scratch from fingernails but I've never seen anything more serious than that.

This is why I have anointed this as a kink in it's own right, because it seems to exist outside the bdsm framework as a simple dare style game. And I'm curious to know if others have had similar experiences or witnessed this outside of their bdsm time? If so I'd love to hear from you, and also if you have used or experienced this as part of your bdsm play, were you aware of this kind of history?

Lot's of us have things we might consider unusual or unique or shameful or too awful to mention to others but as I discussed in my post on dealing with guilt recently, if it's been thought of, there's porn for it! Your kink will be shared by others, you're not alone!

 

[AusNightOwl]

Nobody should judge anyones kinks. After all we are all perverts here ( in a good way)

Absolutely right. Definitely no judging. But the furniture one is ... different

 

[pranadevil]

Personally I'm very into encasement as a fetish, but it's hard to find good stories and videos of it (outside of Gromets Plaza at least for stories).

I don't mean the pantyhose stuff you find usually either, I mean locked box type stuff. Padlocks are fun too. The inescapableness of it really.

Mummification works well with that too. It takes a fair bit of time and effort to do effectively though. But it is good afterwards.

 

[Doctor Pervert]

Here's another of the more obscure kinks you may not have heard of, "trashbagging" and trash fetishes.
This falls into a group of paraphilia known as salirophilia, which is those who enjoy making people dirty or generally messing up their appearance. Which crosses over with mysophilia which is the enjoyment of playing sexually in dirt and mud.

It is a broad group of activities all based on and around an attraction to garbage. This can range from simply playing around with plastic bin liners and wearing them as clothing right through to diving into piles of garbage and rolling around in it or even eating or inserting trash.
Now while this may seem like a really niche and obscure kink research has indicated it's actually quite common. In fact you know your kink is getting mainstream when it turns up on Queensnake's website.



So if this is something you've found yourself curious about then you're not alone. Obviously there will be some hygiene and safety concerns. You'd want to be checking the contents of the trash for dangerous items etc just be sure you acknowledge and understand these risks.

And there you have it, another peek into the never ending rabbit hole of kink.

 

[Doctor Pervert]

It's been a while (or a hot minute?) since my last update so here's a another kink you may not be familiar with.
Spitting.
This is yet another that falls under the paraphilia Salirophilia, which is simply an all encompassing category for anything where you do something to messy, disheveling or dirty to mess up your partners (victims) appearance.

This is one of the kinks that can and often is done with fully clothed individuals, being more about humiliation and degradation. Most often the spitting is into the face or mouth of the spitee, however it can be anywhere on the body including hair and clothes.



Self spitting is also a thing, sometimes just dribbling onto yourself or spitting into the air while laying on your back so it lands somewhere on you.

So what's your take on this one, something you find weirdly fascinating or totally disgusting? Feel free to comment and discuss in the comments below.