Is there a term for a dominant LG?

[meekferret]

I’ve been reading up on age play and everything is oriented around the little playing a sub role. The closest I’ve found is brat, but even then the little is still in the bottom role, just with some understood “fighting back”.

Basically the dynamic I’m trying to describe is SD/LG (submissive daddy/little girl). Is there a term for this? Or have I actually found an exceptionally rare niche?

 

[subzzzero]

I guess the first question would be do these multi roles exist in parallel? Meaning is she going to be both a little and dominant in the same moment? Same for daddy/ submissive role. Is this both items at once?

or are you saying at times the daddy role would be a caregiver top style role but also switches up at times to be sub giving up is dominant role? This would just be a switch for simple terms

There are plenty of littles who are not sub. It may seem like a little would be sub to a big but it’s not a necessity. Plenty of littles and bigs get together with no actual Dom sub power exchange happening. Caregiver can walk a fine line of being dominant or not depending on the actions and expectations.

 

[meekferret]

Thanks! I guess really what I’m describing is simply a “caregiver/little” situation. The little is definitely more “in charge” than I am, and she does play a dominant role in her adult life, but it’s probably a stretch to say that she’s actually a little domme.

I was confused since so much of the discourse uses DD/LG as practically interchangeable with age play. Thanks for explaining that D/s can play out separately.

 

[subzzzero]

Thanks! I guess really what I’m describing is simply a “caregiver/little” situation. The little is definitely more “in charge” than I am, and she does play a dominant role in her adult life, but it’s probably a stretch to say that she’s actually a little domme.

I was confused since so much of the discourse uses DD/LG as practically interchangeable with age play. Thanks for explaining that D/s can play out separately.

As far as being dominant in the daily life and then wanting to be sub in the bedroom that is also quite common of females in positions of authority for work or home life. Parents gotta play that in charge role. CEOs and bosses same idea, Law enforcement, military, etc. I find those I’ve met in that type situation want that power exchange reversed so they can shut their brain off and relax.

But yes as you’ve stated. You can have a little and care giver or little and big dynamic with no actual Dom sub qualities.

I always suggest people look less at the titles themselves and just do what fits the relationship. Trying to fit neatly in a role definition may mean you miss out on other opportunities.

 

[Naughty nova]

I’ve been reading up on age play and everything is oriented around the little playing a sub role. The closest I’ve found is brat, but even then the little is still in the bottom role, just with some understood “fighting back”.

Basically the dynamic I’m trying to describe is SD/LG (submissive daddy/little girl). Is there a term for this? Or have I actually found an exceptionally rare niche?

I am a little and Daddy and I are working on developing my dominant side and yes i still call him Daddy when I am doing this. It is something new for us. For me i say things like good Daddies do "this or that" whatever it is I want. It's a work in progress. We are just starting this. But do what makes you and your partner comfortable. If you want to talk im here. I'm definitely not and expert actually just starting. My little side as a dominant is more of a playful not as demanding as a true dominant would be i dont think.