Need creative and detailed sadistic ideas

[Daddysperfectslut]

I want to help my daddy explore his sadistic side what are some beginner or intermediate type things he can do to me. No piss or scat or blood play. We’re really into him ‘torturing’ me I really want to be a good slut for him and take everything he gives me. So please give creative and detailed examples. Thanks!

 

[subzzzero]

I want to help my daddy explore his sadistic side what are some beginner or intermediate type things he can do to me. No piss or scat or blood play. We’re really into him ‘torturing’ me I really want to be a good slut for him and take everything he gives me. So please give creative and detailed examples. Thanks!

If your “daddy” took you on. Then he should be the one deciding. This kinda makes it seem like maybe he’s needs more vetting if he can’t come up with some actual tasks and scenes. Or perhaps he’s lacking the experience in those kink areas. Pain play is usually more a RACK approach vs SSC. So it would be wise to have an experienced Dom or find him a mentor as he’s learning. Two inexperienced people playing at pain is likely to end up in some injury. Play safe

 

[nastyfkr]

Mr Subzzero is right. If you don't know and he don't know things will not be good.

 

[Daddysperfectslut]

If your “daddy” took you on. Then he should be the one deciding. This kinda makes it seem like maybe he’s needs more vetting if he can’t come up with some actual tasks and scenes. Or perhaps he’s lacking the experience in those kink areas. Pain play is usually more a RACK approach vs SSC. So it would be wise to have an experienced Dom or find him a mentor as he’s learning. Two inexperienced people playing at pain is likely to end up in some injury. Play safe

He’s my husband. We do play safe. That’s why I said beginner examples. We like to learn together. That’s how we like to build experience. We also communicate very fucking well

 

[subzzzero]

He’s my husband. We do play safe. That’s why I said beginner examples. We like to learn together. That’s how we like to build experience. We also communicate very fucking well

That would have been a helpful detail. Given your prior post mentioning him but seeking another I assumed you had a new person.


Invest in some beginner priced items. Amazon or a sex shop is fine.
-Light tassel flogger
-Basic rubber tipped nipple clamps (preferably with the adjustable screw for tension.) can be chained or not. Chained allows for pulling on both at once.
-crop
-small diameter wooden dowel from hardware store. Sanded smooth.
-any type of paddle. Can honestly begin with wooden spoon.
-rubber bands
-clothes pins


Nipple clamps play with it on lower tension and adjust to find your good point. Don’t go past about 10-20 minutes of wear time. Take breaks between.

Impact. Start off easy with each implement as you start exploring them. Work your way up increasing hit strength to find your limit there as well. Don’t know your body style but ass can always be hit. Avoid tailbone with heavy items. Tits can be hit if large enough to avoid sternum hits. Upper thighs front and back. Hits on upper back area with flogger only. Pussy can be hit with it all as well. Take care on the pelvic bone. Avoid lower back for kidneys. Avoid upper feet due to no fat cover over bones.

Rubber band snaps can happen pretty much anywhere.

This is all a good starter.

 

[Gengis]

Two inexperienced people playing at pain is likely to end up in some injury.

Oh.. i can relate. Probably went too extreme too fast without a learning curve, but i had painfull things done to me since younger stages and at that time my enviroment was already extreme so for me it seemed just natural.
Then slowed down the pace and start reading and doing things "right". Without a mentor... now it makes a lot of sense but i bet my old self whould have laugh so hard "ye, right!"

 

[Daddysperfectslut]

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That would have been a helpful detail. Given your prior post mentioning him but seeking another I assumed you had a new person.


Invest in some beginner priced items. Amazon or a sex shop is fine.
-Light tassel flogger
-Basic rubber tipped nipple clamps (preferably with the adjustable screw for tension.) can be chained or not. Chained allows for pulling on both at once.
-crop
-small diameter wooden dowel from hardware store. Sanded smooth.
-any type of paddle. Can honestly begin with wooden spoon.
-rubber bands
-clothes pins


Nipple clamps play with it on lower tension and adjust to find your good point. Don’t go past about 10-20 minutes of wear time. Take breaks between.

Impact. Start off easy with each implement as you start exploring them. Work your way up increasing hit strength to find your limit there as well. Don’t know your body style but ass can always be hit. Avoid tailbone with heavy items. Tits can be hit if large enough to avoid sternum hits. Upper thighs front and back. Hits on upper back area with flogger only. Pussy can be hit with it all as well. Take care on the pelvic bone. Avoid lower back for kidneys. Avoid upper feet due to no fat cover over bones.

Rubber band snaps can happen pretty much anywhere.

This is all a good starter.

That would have been a helpful detail. Given your prior post mentioning him but seeking another I assumed you had a new person.


Invest in some beginner priced items. Amazon or a sex shop is fine.
-Light tassel flogger
-Basic rubber tipped nipple clamps (preferably with the adjustable screw for tension.) can be chained or not. Chained allows for pulling on both at once.
-crop
-small diameter wooden dowel from hardware store. Sanded smooth.
-any type of paddle. Can honestly begin with wooden spoon.
-rubber bands
-clothes pins


Nipple clamps play with it on lower tension and adjust to find your good point. Don’t go past about 10-20 minutes of wear time. Take breaks between.

Impact. Start off easy with each implement as you start exploring them. Work your way up increasing hit strength to find your limit there as well. Don’t know your body style but ass can always be hit. Avoid tailbone with heavy items. Tits can be hit if large enough to avoid sternum hits. Upper thighs front and back. Hits on upper back area with flogger only. Pussy can be hit with it all as well. Take care on the pelvic bone. Avoid lower back for kidneys. Avoid upper feet due to no fat cover over bones.

Rubber band snaps can happen pretty much anywhere.

This is all a good starter.

Thank you

 

[subzzzero]

If you experiment with wax. Get proper low temp candles made for kink play. It helps to put an aloe topical rub on to help make wax removable easier. If it gets in hair it’s hard to remove. Also test drops should be done on inner wrist first so you can determine the safe distance to keep from skin. Also puddling or pouring will insulate the heat and burn so use caution if you explore that route as well.

 

[dearelliot]

Seems like you're topping from the bottom...No this, no that...My Mistress decodes and do

 

[Daddysperfectslut]

Seems like you're topping from the bottom...No this, no that...My Mistress decodes and do

It’s called hard limits