Your question is very broad and general... Is there anything specifically you would want to know? BDSM is a very broad terms that covers a bunch of different things, many different dynamics, kinks, etc. all wrapped under one umbrella.
As of now all I can suggest you is to read. Read lots of non-fiction and educate yourself. Bear in mind at all times that there is no one true way of doing things and that one person's advice is always based solely on their personal experiences and opinions which may not necessarily be the right way for you. So all the information that is out there is there for you to pick what works for you and there is no absolute truth besides that.
If you don't have one already I suggest you make an account on Fetlife and join the group Novices & Newbies. The stickies in that group contain a HUGE collection of discussions on many topics that may be helpful to you. There is a list of non-fiction books that you can find that may be helpful aside from the discussions there.
Oh and one last thing... always take with a grain of salt people who will want to "teach" you, especially over messenger. Most of the time these people have ulterior motives and nothing particluarly brilliant ever comes out of it.
Which leads me to you @KdeMamOci and @ThatOneNudeGuy: This is a discussion board, guys. If you don't have anything else to contribute than "kik me" I would suggest you refrain from replying. Hitting on someone who asks a genuine question in the open forums is really tacky and spammy-ish.
