Let's start here. First, I don't personally care how you communicate with other members, other than she requested a certain form and you ordered her to contact you in a different one. As a MODERATOR of the site, I'm neither the developer, nor able to change format. That is something only the ADMINISTRATORS can do. It's not my site to make changes on, I only enforce the rules and participate in discussions. I won't argue that the site is mobile friendly, it's not. It's a giant pain on a cellular phone. That said, no one is making you use a mobile unfriendly site. While 90% of what I do I struggle through on my mobile phone, when it's going to be difficult I get on my computer. I can make the effort not to use a phone when necessary and I expect no less from someone else.
So if anyone can task anyone they chose now, I task you with writing a 500 word essay on the meaning of the word consent and how it's a violation of it to give orders to people who have not asked for task, nor given you permission to give them orders. She asked for a relationship, whatever the scope, not some random person to tell her what to do. She's a submissive, but you're not her dom. You don't get to ORDER her to do a damn thing. PERIOD. You can REQUEST all you want, but there is a big difference between an order and a request. Honestly, I gave up a long time ago at pointing out people requested pms and getting a long list of kik and skypes. My issue is you seem to think you have the right to tell her to do something. YOU DON'T. No one made you king, you don't get to tell anyone what to do unless they say you can. If the private messaging system is too difficult for you to use, you might just try saying you have troubles accessing it from your mobile devise and ask politely for her to contact you. Manners get you a long way in life. Being a dom doesn't mean you boss everyone around.
Worthy of being under you? That's hilarious from a man who won't put in the effort to honor her request of a private message. So what if it's not easy? If you can't put in the effort to ask for details as she requested, what makes you so worthy of her submitting to you? Why does she have to put in more effort to get to know you than you do her? A submissive is not worth less than a dom, she no more needs to be worthy of your attention than you need to be worthy of her. If you want a "worthy" submissive, be a dominant worthy someone submitting to. Clicking a button that identifies you as dominant does not make you more worthy of anything.
