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Awesomeffect

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Uhm ok I think this would go here. I'll try to keep this short basically I want to explore my pain... hmm fetish I guess. So I would like to try some tasks and challenges given by you guys here. I have a pretty high pain threshold so just because I'm not too familiar with pain doesn't mean you have to hold back! I won't post picture but there may be some sort of picture reward for people who are really creative and stand out to me.

Also I will try to talk about how each task went though I may do them in sets of two or three because I would hate to be that person who keeps posting on her own thread in order to boost it back to the top of the list.

Anyway could you guys help me out? And I'm very sorry if there is a more appropriate place to post this request
 

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Interesting, a well structured request I must say. To establish your pain tolerance is a really good idea, my suggestion is very simple and safe and only requires a few regular items.
First, as with any new pain inflicting device, test it. So start out with some plain clothes pegs, doesn't really matter what type but the spring tension will make a difference. The tried and proven way to test any new clip or clamp is to attach it to the webbing between your thumb and first finger. If you can tolerate it there then you can move on to more intimate places, if it is too much for you on the webbing it is very unlikely you will be able to use it anywhere else.
So now the actual task, try your tested pegs on nipples, tits, cunt lips or anywhere else that intrigues you. Start out using a timer, don't guess the time as you are trying to establish your tolerance. Try for 3 minutes, if you make to then go for another minute. Try to add time in whole minutes rather than just giving up at a random point. Once you have established your maximum time you can try another game, clip them on for 1 minute less than your max, remove them for 15 seconds then put them back on for the remaining minute. Notice the difference?
When you have explored all you can do with a few clothes pegs look around for other clips you can experiment with, things like binder clips or grocery bag clips but be sure to test each type with the webbing test before you commit them to to anything more sensitive.

Hope this helps.
 

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Interesting, a well structured request I must say. To establish your pain tolerance is a really good idea, my suggestion is very simple and safe and only requires a few regular items.

When you have explored all you can do with a few clothes pegs look around for other clips you can experiment with, things like binder clips or grocery bag clips but be sure to test each type with the webbing test before you commit them to to anything more sensitive.

two things. First is it weird that calling that area webbing kinda grosses me out :p and second don't make the pain tolerance thing sound so impressive it wasn't on purpose or anything. My dad made me take martial arts when I was a kid and I stuck with it so I kinda got used to the pain thing.

Now then sense I said I didn't want to be the girl that keeps bumping her post up here is the actually important part and this effects the whole thread not just the quote so pay attention everyone. Sense I thought it might be helpful I decided to tell you my erogenous zones, but it's kinda embarrassing so keep it a secret :p. My nipples are really sensitive, obviously my clit, and finally my under boobs are extremely sensitive for some reason. Also feel free to unclude toys in the tasks money isn't really an issue for me right now so I'm fine with buying something if I don't have it. So yeah hope that helped and thank you for the suggestion I am going to try it out right now
 

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if you're into temperatures like extreme cold, try holding something like a bag of ice against erogenous zones for as long as you can tolerate
 
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well you could

You could bind your tits really tight with rope or chains then use clips you could also rap rubber bands around your tits and stretch them then let them go so it hits the under boob you could tie fishing wire around your nipples and then connect the lines by tying them around your clit and thats all i got right now
 

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reports

Ok here are the reports on the first two tasks (helgrun's and droptokon's). Sense I have a 2000 character limit in these posts the reports will be rather short just kinda a summary of what happened and my thoughts on the task.

droptokon's task: Well the task wasn't too bad and I was able to with stand 3 minutes on each zone he had listed as well as a few others. Except for my nipples and my clit I could only last two minutes with each. However I kept trying the task over the past day giving myself about an hour in between each try and I finally managed to get 3 minutes on my nipples this morning yay! I also managed to get 3 minutes and 32 seconds on my clit give or take a few seconds I was using a timer so there may be some difference between when I stopped it and when I actually took the clamp off. For clamps I was just using clothes pins because all I had was clothes with and binder clamps and let's just say binder clamps hurt a lot more! but it was a lot of fun thank your for the task

helgrun"s task: it was an interesting task but cold doesn't cause much pain. I had to wait for a while before it even started to hurt and the pain was a lot different from using clamps. It felt kind of dull and to be honest I didn't really like it that much however withstanding the cold for that long was pretty tough so it could still be fun to explore it more.

Right if anyone has any questions or wants to hear more about these two tasks pm me because I wasn't able to get really detailed with the low character limit.
 

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Question. Have you ever done anal or are comfortable with it? If so take a butt plug, or buy one if you don't have it, and put it in you asshole and leave it in all day. Even if going out of the house. And if thats not painful enough try putting a dildo in your vagina as well and leave both in. And if that is also not painful enough try stretching out holes if interested. Buy a cone shaped dildo and slowly work your way up.
 

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Question. Have you ever done anal or are comfortable with it? If so take a butt plug, or buy one if you don't have it, and put it in you asshole and leave it in all day. Even if going out of the house. And if thats not painful enough try putting a dildo in your vagina as well and leave both in. And if that is also not painful enough try stretching out holes if interested. Buy a cone shaped dildo and slowly work your way up.

Ok uhm sorry I'll tell this to everyone I enjoy insertions and find them quite pleasurable so tasks like this one aren't much help to me. Also I enjoy anal and do it on a regular/semi-regular basis so it has gotten to the point where anal doesn't hurt on it's own anymore now coating a dildo in something before inserting it might hurts (I've heard things like tooth paste really burns) but just plain anal and insertions I find to be pleasurable.
 

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Hmm, I have an idea. Get three different styles of hot sauce (like; mild, spicy, extra spicy) and apply them either to a dildo or directly to your genitals. That should, shall we say 'spice' things up. If you cannot take it, have a wet towel at hand to clean it off. Though that might not be enough...
 

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A word of caution on using any type of "hot sauce", unless you are very experienced DON'T DO IT. They all contain various amounts of capsaicin which can cause very nasty chemical burns. I have seen blisters that look like severe sunburn result from this stuff. Now like all these things different people react differently, skin allergies and so forth and some people do use them but they have worked their way up to it. This is not a beginners game, try toothpaste to start out and definitely keep it outside until you have assessed the effect on you.
 

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A word of caution on using any type of "hot sauce", unless you are very experienced DON'T DO IT. They all contain various amounts of capsaicin which can cause very nasty chemical burns. I have seen blisters that look like severe sunburn result from this stuff. Now like all these things different people react differently, skin allergies and so forth and some people do use them but they have worked their way up to it. This is not a beginners game, try toothpaste to start out and definitely keep it outside until you have assessed the effect on you.

Thanks for looking out for me but I already decided that the worst I'd use down there is tooth paste or some form of mouth wash
 

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I have just been rereading this thread and noticed you mentioned that the underside of your tits is particularly sensitive. This would have to make you a good candidate to try out a painful bra. Somewhere are around I have a whole thread and album dedicated to the topic but basically you modify a bra to contain some nasty items that press against your tits. In your case the emphasis would be underneath. Just let me know if you want any more info...
 

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report 2 (for posts #7 & #12)

ok I've decided skipping NathanValentine's post because I've decided it's too dangerous and should not be tried by anyone whom hasn't worked their way up to it with lots of training, which is why this report has been a bit delayed (I was waiting for another person to post a task. So yeah thanks droptokon!!! now then onto the reports.

JohnG626: I had left a post saying that I find insertions to be pleasurable especially anal ones so this task wasn't that painful for me. actually I personally enjoyed it :). Sense it was not painful enough I did do both one in my ass and one in my pussy. Sense I'm not as accustomed to long time vaginal insertions near the end it was kind of uncomfortable/painful, but it never went beyond discomfort. I left them in for 5 hours.

droptokon (post #12): This was a very interesting and fun task to complete though to be honest I should have looked into how to make a tack bra before trying to make one. I eventually figured it out but I ended up ruining 5 bras in the process. That said it's a good excuse to go shopping. I wore the tack bra for 4 hours while I went shopping and got lunch. I would have kept it on all day but I wanted to test my endurance with it and by time the end of the shopping trip it was starting to hurt pretty bad. I made the tack bra with 8 tacks in each cup focused around my under boobs. My favorite things involving this task was that the mixture of pain (that I got from the tacks) and pleasure (that I got from walking around in public with it on) was amazing. So thanks a bunch for this droptokon!

As always I will give anyone, who pm's me asking for it, a more detailed report of any tasks I've received and posted about on this thread. Also next time I'm going to try for a 3 task report but if the character limit poses a problem I'll stick to the 2 task format.
 

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A Task

Ok you will need some rope. One tied across the room or between two chairs or whatever you have handy. The idea behind this rope is so that on one end it just touches your pussy but as you walk to the other end the rope gets higher and higher. You can put knots in the rope and add toothpaste etc. at certain points to make it more interesting. I've even seen this done with vibrators attached every few feet.

Now for the tricky part if you can tie your hands so you can't touch the rope in anyway, maybe a second rope above your head or something and handcuff your hands above that rope with the key(s) at the other end. This way you can't do anything to relieve yourself of the rope until you get to the other side where the key is. Just keep safety in mind here.

Now prepare yourself. Tie your ankles with maybe about 1/2 foot or so space between them, the idea is to limit how fast you can move. Now put some rubber bands around your breasts then you can add nipple clamps or tack bra. Let's not forget the gag and if you can do so safely a blindfold. If you are going to tie your hands as well now is a good time to do that if you haven't already. Now work your way to the other end.

Enjoy
 

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Pain test

Here is a pain test for you:
-Find a rubberband (thin/strong is best).
-Stretch the rubberband between your thumb and finger in one hand; hold it so one side is touching your skin.
-Pull back the side touching your skin as far as you can and release it

How many snaps can you do to the following areas?
1) Each inner thigh right next to your pussy
2) Each ass cheek
3) Cleavage about 2 inches above your nipples (both)
4) Under boob (both)
5) Nipples (both)
6) Pussy lips
7) Asshole (must be direct hit, or it doesn't count)
8) Clit

-For each area, keep striking the same exact place repeatedly.
-Each strike must be within 10 secs of the previous snap.
-Do not look at the rubberband when you are pulling it back.
-Stop only when you are no longer able to take the pain for that area.

I have in mind a minimum number that you should reach for each area. I expect you to exceed my expectations.
In your report, discuss your arousal level after completing each area.
 

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Report 3 (posts #14 & #15)

Ok I know I said I was going to wait for a set of 3 this time but it's been a couple days sense I completed the tasks and it isn't a matter of bumping my thread up so much as I don't think it's fair especially to the two people that posted these tasks to make them wait for who knows how long for a report so I decided to write one up. I'll still try for a set of 3 as often as possible but I won't keep people waiting for a third post ok?

Cybernut (#14): this was an interesting task... I feel like I might need to redo it at some point when I have a bigger room that I can use because as it is the rope that I had to walk was only about 6 or 7 feet long. I put knots every 4 inches so there were 3 knots every foot that would hit my clit. I decided to sling my hand cuffs over a second rope that was over my head and I held one key in my hand in case of emergency, the other was hanging from the rope on the other side. At first it was easy I managed to get through the first yard of rope without having to slow down from a normal walking pace, though I say that my feet were tied together with about half a foot of rope between my legs so it was more of a fast shuffle then a walking pace. After the first yard the chafing that had been building up had started to really hurt and I slowed down a lot by the time I reached the other side I was panting heavily and my clit was red and swollen a little. I loved the brushing pain this gave me and I would love to do another task like this again sometime... to be honest I found the swelling to be quite arousing (blush). Though if I do decide to do this again I'll probably use knots every 6 inches instead especially if I make the rope longer.

jt1 (post #15): ok this one was pretty simple so I'll just number the results each numbered bullet corresponds to the same number on the original post but I'll still list the body area.
1) Inner thigh left: 12; Right: 15 I wasn't that aroused from my inner thighs
2) Ass Cheek Left: 20; Right: 18 (I've done lots of spanking in the past so my ass cheeks are quite resistant to pain) This one aroused me quite a bit because I love being spanked and the rubber band gave me a similar feeling so I started to get wet.
3) Cleavage Left Boob: 13; Right: 16 this area made me pretty excited but not as much as my ass
4) Under Boob Left: 10; Right: 12 (my under boobs are really weak to pain I only barely made it to 10 on the left one) This one was really hard and it turned me on a lot probably more than any of the others except my clit.
5) Nipple Left: 14; Right: 19 I really enjoyed this area but I had to try it about three times because my hand kept moving from the pleasure.
6) Pussy Lips: 14 (I didn't know if he meant inner or outer so I did both inner was only 5 though) this one wasn't all that good by time I got to it I was really wet so it just stung like hell. (I guess it was a bit too painful for me to enjoy)
7) Asshole: N/A I couldn't reach my Asshole on my own and though I do have someone I can ask for help I don't like doing that unless I know I'll enjoy it because she hates doing things to me that I don't like
8) Clit: 11 This was my favorite area I really loved how slutty my clit looked when it was beat red and throbbing at the end it made me feel really really good!!!
 

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Another Idea

I read about this idea elsewhere and this sub has clearly done this several times as she then went out bar hopping/dancing.

Basically tie up your chest and whatever else you like, even your breast but not too tight. Then add a crotch rope with knots at the right places. And if you like you can add a butt plug and/or insert something into your vagina before adding the crotch rope. Now get dressed and go out in public. Do whatever you had planned that day or just go window shopping.
I would imagine always wondering when someone is looking in your direction if it's because they have noticed something or not must add to the entire experience. So I'll have to give a try, but being a male I'll have to come up with something different for the crotch rope :)
 

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