I think the bigger thing it shows is she ghosted. But then was willing to blatantly lie about doing so.It shows the course of only 1-2hrs hours start finish. So it may likely be that OP was just seeking quick play. Although I have also seen times a sub is just a no reply and ghost if they think the match up isn’t good or if they got busy. Unfortunately not everyone in the online kink world is good at communication. A lesson learned for all in this case. Kink thrives with good communication.