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LadyGrace321

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I'd like to share a concern.
Everyone complains about the pay to play ads and how frustrating it is for a sub/slave to seek someone to connect with.
This post is for those who are on the hunt.
- Messaging another person
asking up front to be another persons slave/sub without getting to know who your talking to is... to be blunt, stupid.
Your making the receiver of the message feel like a free version of findom (pay to play)

-Getting to know them
If your engaged in conversation and realize it's not a good fit, say so. Ghosting isn't fun.

-Time
Time is precious. Being consistent, considerate, and respectful of one's time you have connected with someone is a must. Real life is continuously going on. Just because you've not gotten a message in a timely manner doesn't mean that person is upset with you. (Probably)

🫣 There are so many personal ads where they shouldn't be. It makes looking up juicy posts difficult. If you want to connect with someone who isn't apart of the 🤑 , make a post about your kinky desire, or jump into the comments. Talking in public can connect you to a like minded individual that you may not have noticed before.

That sums it up. I give a duck about you fuckers. Let's have some fun.
 

Gengis

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Hahaha I messed up the time part. My bad. I saw something shiny.
I dont see anything weird... what u mean?
Also, if ther eis something wrong or that u want to change, there is an "edit " button and u can edit the post to your likings
 

Gengis

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Your making the receiver of the message feel like a free version of findom (pay to play)
I LOLed at this... my mind shown up a warning like: "Your trial period is expired, update to pro to continue with your slavery"
 

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- Messaging another person
asking up front to be another persons slave/sub without getting to know who your talking to is... to be blunt, stupid.
100%
This comes in often for me as well.

Another note is when a thread convo is happening and a person is talking about hot things. Maybe what they’ve done or fantasize etc. this is not an ad seeking a dynamic. It is not an invitation to private message and try to make demands. I see it hugely one sided here when a female posts anything at all it creates an inbox flood of “kik me slave” or “you need a daddy” or any other shallow one liner dribble the empty headed horny selfish dudes can come with.
Guys, do better.
 
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Gengis

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Not to mention the "whatever 1 line u choose", on a thread from 2016
 

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