Hmmm...I'm a bit picky when it comes to this...
The only part I like a guy to have a bit of hair on is the genitals...wierd, maybe yes, but I can't stand guys who insist on shaving their balls or whatever. Ew. I hate it. My bf only trims his every now and then and that's the way I like it. A fair bit of hair down there, not too much, but not bald either...that can become a ltitle annoying when it comes to bj's, but as long as he has hair there....I won't be complaining.
I don't like really dark, hairy arms....hmmm...I don't know, it realy depends on the guy.
Some guys suit quite a bit of body hair, others look gross. I had a guy I went to school with who had the hairiest legs...
shudder...they were black, black hairs and he had really white skin....sorry, but
PUKE...
My bf has olive skin, no hair on his chest, very little hair on his arms, light brown hair on his legs, a manly amount of hair on his goods, and beautiful dark brown hair on his head...this is my perfect image...
But he's my bf...of course he's perfect!! Lol
You will definitely find that alot of women will have totally different preferences to me...but that's life. You cannot go around pleasing everyone's tastes ALL THE TIME.
If you are insecure about it, then do something about it to make you feel better. Go to a waxing place and ask the girl what she thinks is best...
But please don't shave your legs...that's kinda gay...
I have never had this problem. I have light, light blonde body hair and my whole life I have never had to shave my legs. It's just that it's really thin and light that from surfing I think it may be, it's kinda all just faded away.
Everyone is different. Some of us are hairy, some of us not. I wouldn't sweat about it too much...if your current gf is fine with it...well, she's the only one you need to please so what's the big deal??
All the best!!