So here I am, a 26 year old male (5'10", 160 pounds, athletic build) happily married with a young child. I've been into self bondage for several years off and on, but don't have any chances to play with a wife and kid at home all the time. My wife and kid will be gone for two weeks soon, so I'm trying to decide that to plan for my time alone. I'm open to ideas etc.
A little about what I have done in the past. I've tied myself up in the past for fun a few times with rope etc. and am handy with knots. I've hogtied myself pretty well several times in the past and enjoy a good hogtie, but can only take them for so long. I really enjoy anal play, so I want to incorporate wearing butt plugs for lengths of time as well. I have experimented some with pain and humiliation, so I might include some of those too. I do like dressing sexily as a woman, so most of my self bondage times include wearing whatever sexy women's clothing I have hidden at the house.
What I have:
2 padded leather cuffs that have "D" rings on the sides to lock together or separate
2 small luggage type padlocks (w/ 2 sets of keys)
Plenty of .5 inch thick ~10 ft long lengths of nylon rope
1 ball gag (single strap w/ 2.5 inch ball)
1 1 inch diameter small butt plug
1 1.75 inch diameter medium butt plug
1 2.5 inch diameter large butt plug
1 Hitachi Magic Wand (plugs into wall) + butterfly attachment (goes around penis)
Size 6 4" high heels (have to have shoe horn to squeeze feet in and they hurt a lot to wear.
1 pair ankle length hot pink tights
1 pair ankle length turquoise tight
1 pair ankle length black tights with thin turquoise stipe on sides
1 pair white patterned thong
1 black and purple corset (nice and tight, but not super restrictive)
1 faux leather very short skirt
1 pair purple 4 inch high heels that zip up so they won't come off without fingers
1 pair red 4 inch high heels (way too small and can't wear for more than about 5 minutes because they hurt too much)
I have never done overnight bondage, so that is one thing I'm considering. I have fantasized for a while about falling asleep in some sort of bondage or submissive situation, to be able to stay that way all night long.
I'm looking for scenarios, challenges, dares, etc to do.
Things that are not possible: outdoor bondage etc., bondage etc at work, pictures/video
My wife and kid will be gone for 2 weeks and I work full time, but want to fill my time with self bondage and dressing like a woman. I would like to be dressed sexily as a woman for as much time as I can, so please take that into consideration. Also, I would like to be plugged in some fashion for most of the time (not at work).
I might be open to things such as lengths of time required to wear butt plug at a time, putting myself in a position to experience more pleasure or maybe pain than I intended, and forced to wear women's clothing for lengths of time for humiliation etc.
A game that could be played for different results: get 1 dice and roll it. The roll could be the number of hours I spend tied in a position, dressed up, plugged with butt plug, or number or orgasms required, etc. Dice could be rolled again to increase the length of time or orgasms required within a certain time limit, etc. Could be a very devious game depending on the situation...
Thanks so much for your time to suggest things for me.
A little about what I have done in the past. I've tied myself up in the past for fun a few times with rope etc. and am handy with knots. I've hogtied myself pretty well several times in the past and enjoy a good hogtie, but can only take them for so long. I really enjoy anal play, so I want to incorporate wearing butt plugs for lengths of time as well. I have experimented some with pain and humiliation, so I might include some of those too. I do like dressing sexily as a woman, so most of my self bondage times include wearing whatever sexy women's clothing I have hidden at the house.
What I have:
2 padded leather cuffs that have "D" rings on the sides to lock together or separate
2 small luggage type padlocks (w/ 2 sets of keys)
Plenty of .5 inch thick ~10 ft long lengths of nylon rope
1 ball gag (single strap w/ 2.5 inch ball)
1 1 inch diameter small butt plug
1 1.75 inch diameter medium butt plug
1 2.5 inch diameter large butt plug
1 Hitachi Magic Wand (plugs into wall) + butterfly attachment (goes around penis)
Size 6 4" high heels (have to have shoe horn to squeeze feet in and they hurt a lot to wear.
1 pair ankle length hot pink tights
1 pair ankle length turquoise tight
1 pair ankle length black tights with thin turquoise stipe on sides
1 pair white patterned thong
1 black and purple corset (nice and tight, but not super restrictive)
1 faux leather very short skirt
1 pair purple 4 inch high heels that zip up so they won't come off without fingers
1 pair red 4 inch high heels (way too small and can't wear for more than about 5 minutes because they hurt too much)
I have never done overnight bondage, so that is one thing I'm considering. I have fantasized for a while about falling asleep in some sort of bondage or submissive situation, to be able to stay that way all night long.
I'm looking for scenarios, challenges, dares, etc to do.
Things that are not possible: outdoor bondage etc., bondage etc at work, pictures/video
My wife and kid will be gone for 2 weeks and I work full time, but want to fill my time with self bondage and dressing like a woman. I would like to be dressed sexily as a woman for as much time as I can, so please take that into consideration. Also, I would like to be plugged in some fashion for most of the time (not at work).
I might be open to things such as lengths of time required to wear butt plug at a time, putting myself in a position to experience more pleasure or maybe pain than I intended, and forced to wear women's clothing for lengths of time for humiliation etc.
A game that could be played for different results: get 1 dice and roll it. The roll could be the number of hours I spend tied in a position, dressed up, plugged with butt plug, or number or orgasms required, etc. Dice could be rolled again to increase the length of time or orgasms required within a certain time limit, etc. Could be a very devious game depending on the situation...
Thanks so much for your time to suggest things for me.
