I am kind of new to bdsm, I've taken an interest in the past but I'm currently in a relationship where my partner and I are both interested in Dom/sub. There are a few details however that make it a bit more complex than simply Dom/sub. We are both extremely possessive of each other and love owning each other. We fully submit to each other in a very unique way. She is very attracted to be Dom, while I've always secretly wanted to be submissive to a powerful woman. However our roles do tend to switch, a sort of power struggle. And it is a big turn on to both of us. We both have the tendencies to behave as a sub, willing to obey and pleasure the other at command, to let the other take control and do as they want. We trust each other entirely and both receive immense pleasure in being in control and being controlled. In a way feels like a sort of game. I love when she takes control, and I feel like the times I take control of her only inspire her to be a better Dom. Maybe what I'm talking about isn't D/s at all but I haven't been able to find any explanation on this kind of relationship. I feel like maybe she is a little more inclined towards Dom and me a little more towards sub, but it would feel so terrible if we weren't able to switch the roles occasionally because we both also enjoy the switching very much. Does anyone have any advice, comments? Am I disgracing something sacred, is this an unusual situation?
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