So this is two parted but anyway 1. I have noticed that recently I have been finding myself smelling my sub wife’s underwear after she takes them off( it’s only in private and she doesn’t know) I think it’s because we haven’t been intimate in a while. 2. Even though I am the dominant my sub occasionally likes to switch roles and I love it when we get her underwear super wet from multiple orgasms then she gags me with them. Is this a fetish on it’s own or am I just weird?