Virgin girl loves anal

Female25

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Hey everyone,
I’m a virgin girl, 25.
Never had sex with someone,
I only do soft masturbation but I love watching anal stuff and I was wondering if I should explore it alone like with toys or objects.
What do you think ?
Thanks
 

subzzzero

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Yes added to what’s above. Don’t go too thick or too deep too fast. This a slow stretching process. Think marathon not sprint. Plugs of different size and shape are ideal. You need consistent longer term use for the progress to show. Don’t believe the porn you see where they just jam it in. It’s not the way. This people are way looser than they claim and the “oh it’s painful” is fake. You could end up with soft tissue tears and scar tissue from it if you force things too quickly.

Start off small if it burns it’s too much. When above mentioned lots of lube this is fact. Use a finger to lube your asshole itself as well and a bit outside of it as it will cause friction with your toy. Also lube your toy well. Longer term plug west may require remove and add lube.
The jeweled plugs with round handle end are not great for Longterm wear. It will actually pinch your skin. The more slender curved handles are best for longer wear. If you go with silicon be sure you use the right type of lube or it could deteriorate the material over time. Always always always use a toy that’s too long to lose inside or that has some sort of capture device like a plug handle or anal beads have the lanyard string. Sticking small items in not able to be retrieved can get stuck with the suction created and need actual medical assistance to remove.
Don’t use any items that have sharp edges or seams from molding casting process. A good rule of thumb is run the item over your tongue. If it feels sharp on your tongue don’t put it in your ass.

Prior to doing anal. Be sure to use the bathroom and possibly do an enema flush if you’re worried about the mess factor. Even then shit still happens pun intended so be sure to have a towel or wipes nearby for easy clean up during play.

If you go too wide and it hurts like burning stop. If you go too deep and get resistance and it hurts, stop. If you are wearing the plug and feel nauseous over time, stop.

After anal play you will feel muscles tightened because your body wants to naturally expel the item so your lower abdomen may feel kind of funny like you’ve been exercising because you infact have been tensing muscles whether you realize it or not.

Light red watered down tiny bits of blood isn’t the end of the world it just means you need to slow down a bit. Dark red or flowing excessive bleeding should be straight to ER care. Again I’d you go slow the risks are very minimal.

Hope this helps. Ask if you have questions

Edit: most guys those shitty fake “doms” especially are always searching out anal as like the holy grail. They usually only know porn and ignorantly think it’s fact. Don’t let some random dude direct you on how to do it. Do your own research as well. I’ve met subs with lifetime scar tissue and doctor visits over listening to a horny guy in the moment and doing stupid things with anal. Those same guys ghost as soon as shit goes wrong especially if online.
 

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Yes added to what’s above. Don’t go too thick or too deep too fast. This a slow stretching process. Think marathon not sprint. Plugs of different size and shape are ideal. You need consistent longer term use for the progress to show. Don’t believe the porn you see where they just jam it in. It’s not the way. This people are way looser than they claim and the “oh it’s painful” is fake. You could end up with soft tissue tears and scar tissue from it if you force things too quickly.

Start off small if it burns it’s too much. When above mentioned lots of lube this is fact. Use a finger to lube your asshole itself as well and a bit outside of it as it will cause friction with your toy. Also lube your toy well. Longer term plug west may require remove and add lube.
The jeweled plugs with round handle end are not great for Longterm wear. It will actually pinch your skin. The more slender curved handles are best for longer wear. If you go with silicon be sure you use the right type of lube or it could deteriorate the material over time. Always always always use a toy that’s too long to lose inside or that has some sort of capture device like a plug handle or anal beads have the lanyard string. Sticking small items in not able to be retrieved can get stuck with the suction created and need actual medical assistance to remove.
Don’t use any items that have sharp edges or seams from molding casting process. A good rule of thumb is run the item over your tongue. If it feels sharp on your tongue don’t put it in your ass.

Prior to doing anal. Be sure to use the bathroom and possibly do an enema flush if you’re worried about the mess factor. Even then shit still happens pun intended so be sure to have a towel or wipes nearby for easy clean up during play.

If you go too wide and it hurts like burning stop. If you go too deep and get resistance and it hurts, stop. If you are wearing the plug and feel nauseous over time, stop.

After anal play you will feel muscles tightened because your body wants to naturally expel the item so your lower abdomen may feel kind of funny like you’ve been exercising because you infact have been tensing muscles whether you realize it or not.

Light red watered down tiny bits of blood isn’t the end of the world it just means you need to slow down a bit. Dark red or flowing excessive bleeding should be straight to ER care. Again I’d you go slow the risks are very minimal.

Hope this helps. Ask if you have questions

Edit: most guys those shitty fake “doms” especially are always searching out anal as like the holy grail. They usually only know porn and ignorantly think it’s fact. Don’t let some random dude direct you on how to do it. Do your own research as well. I’ve met subs with lifetime scar tissue and doctor visits over listening to a horny guy in the moment and doing stupid things with anal. Those same guys ghost as soon as shit goes wrong especially if online.
perfect guidance
 

Cleo420

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Yes added to what’s above. Don’t go too thick or too deep too fast. This a slow stretching process. Think marathon not sprint. Plugs of different size and shape are ideal. You need consistent longer term use for the progress to show. Don’t believe the porn you see where they just jam it in. It’s not the way. This people are way looser than they claim and the “oh it’s painful” is fake. You could end up with soft tissue tears and scar tissue from it if you force things too quickly.

Start off small if it burns it’s too much. When above mentioned lots of lube this is fact. Use a finger to lube your asshole itself as well and a bit outside of it as it will cause friction with your toy. Also lube your toy well. Longer term plug west may require remove and add lube.
The jeweled plugs with round handle end are not great for Longterm wear. It will actually pinch your skin. The more slender curved handles are best for longer wear. If you go with silicon be sure you use the right type of lube or it could deteriorate the material over time. Always always always use a toy that’s too long to lose inside or that has some sort of capture device like a plug handle or anal beads have the lanyard string. Sticking small items in not able to be retrieved can get stuck with the suction created and need actual medical assistance to remove.
Don’t use any items that have sharp edges or seams from molding casting process. A good rule of thumb is run the item over your tongue. If it feels sharp on your tongue don’t put it in your ass.

Prior to doing anal. Be sure to use the bathroom and possibly do an enema flush if you’re worried about the mess factor. Even then shit still happens pun intended so be sure to have a towel or wipes nearby for easy clean up during play.

If you go too wide and it hurts like burning stop. If you go too deep and get resistance and it hurts, stop. If you are wearing the plug and feel nauseous over time, stop.

After anal play you will feel muscles tightened because your body wants to naturally expel the item so your lower abdomen may feel kind of funny like you’ve been exercising because you infact have been tensing muscles whether you realize it or not.

Light red watered down tiny bits of blood isn’t the end of the world it just means you need to slow down a bit. Dark red or flowing excessive bleeding should be straight to ER care. Again I’d you go slow the risks are very minimal.

Hope this helps. Ask if you have questions

Edit: most guys those shitty fake “doms” especially are always searching out anal as like the holy grail. They usually only know porn and ignorantly think it’s fact. Don’t let some random dude direct you on how to do it. Do your own research as well. I’ve met subs with lifetime scar tissue and doctor visits over listening to a horny guy in the moment and doing stupid things with anal. Those same guys ghost as soon as shit goes wrong especially if online.
Appreciate the details. Never thought about the details for long term wear.
 

Terri

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I've found anal to be somewhat addictive, and definitely an acquired taste, like coffee. Once I experienced that stretching feeling, I wanted it again, and more intensely. It's a slippery slope, pun intended.
 

subzzzero

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I've found anal to be somewhat addictive, and definitely an acquired taste, like coffee. Once I experienced that stretching feeling, I wanted it again, and more intensely. It's a slippery slope, pun intended.
Slippery slope lol. Yes it is worth noting like you said. Not everyone is into the butt stuff. Some just don’t enjoy it at all.
 

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The first time I managed to get a plug inside, I was surprised that it took almost as much patience, deliberate relaxation, slow breathing, and lube to get it back out. So just recognize that all the great advice above applies both coming and going.
 
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I've found anal to be somewhat addictive, and definitely an acquired taste, like coffee. Once I experienced that stretching feeling, I wanted it again, and more intensely. It's a slippery slope, pun intended.
Indeed it is pain mixed with pleasure. It is great, with a very pacient partner, to push constant and do not apply too much pressure in the same time. Once he is in, I get relaxed and start to move easier. Strange or not, the best anal sex I had with a woman 👠 👠 👠
 

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The first time I managed to get a plug inside, I was surprised that it took almost as much patience, deliberate relaxation, slow breathing, and lube to get it back out. So just recognize that all the great advice above applies both coming and going.
My experience is that everything that goes in.... goes out with half the effort. I am supprized this does not go for everybody. Learn something every day.
 

Willitfit

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Hey everyone,
I’m a virgin girl, 25.
Never had sex with someone,
I only do soft masturbation but I love watching anal stuff and I was wondering if I should explore it alone like with toys or objects.
What do you think ?
Thanks
Doing the ground work alone is a good idea. You'll learn to relax and how it feels. If someone else is doing the probing and poking you will feel pressure and have no controll... go slow and find out what you like.

To me it felt like a rush and i hope you enjoy your quest to backdoor fun aswel.

Yours, Willitfit
 

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