What to do?

[WetBrick]

23M here just joined this site, I’ve always found being a sub/sissy an attractive idea, have toys for it that I keep hidden bc with my friends I’d never be able to publicly be that. How should I go about trying to find a dom whilst also not ruining my life with my friends.

 

[paddledmale28]

there are plenty of people in similar situations. You need to find someone who respects your boundaries. Make sure you provide clear communication of what you want, when you can play.
unless you want to wear a dress 24/7, it shouldn’t be an issue finding someone who respects your boundaries

 

[WetBrick]

I figured, but idek where to start when it comes to finding that person for me. And I don’t want it to get leaked into my public life. Also in the military and going on a deployment here soon so I’m just in a terrible position